spootieho said:
tim said:
Is it not the norm in any of those countries? Are you 100% confident about that? Say it's not the norm. What if it happens 20% of the time? Is that not enough? How rare is it? How does the news in Iran present the US to it's people?
tim said:
Yes it is different. But we aren't bringing people here that hate the USA. We are bringing people here that want to leave the other countries. We spend months vetting them.
Why won't you say why the USA needed the change that Trump made? This seems like a question that anyone for the ban would be able to answer. I am not trying to be elitist here. I am really trying to get you to answer the question. I am trying to get anyone to answer the question.
I embrace our refugee immigrants with open arms. In fact, I am married to one. I'm sure you saw me stick up for refugees as well.
http://www.talkirvine.com/index.php/topic,15157.msg304597.html#msg304597
What I am doing here is encouraging critical thinking. I'm explaining how people think. I'm explaining fears that people have.
I think some of my fears are rational. You disagree. I'm not nearly as afraid as the rest of the US. My feelings on this don't really matter. The US is your community. You should respect your neighbors.
Say you live in a house with 3 people. One of those 3 people doesn't like a particular house guest. The other 2 people should respect that person's fear and not invite the problem person over. It doesn't matter if the fear is irrational or unreasonable. The USA is our house.
Thank you for replying! I'm really not trying to be an ass. I am perhaps failing at that sometimes here.
I have no stats to prove it is not the norm in every country. Have you met someone who was raised that way? I haven't. I haven't even heard a name of someone who was. All those I have met that immigrated here love this country. I guess I am relying on anecdotes here.
I imagine the news in Iran does not present the USA well. How does the news here present Iran? Not well. Yet I do not think vetted USA citizens are a threat if they visit Iran. And I do not think vetted Iranian immigrants are a threat to the USA.
Yes, I think it just comes down to you and I valuing different principles differently. Like you said, I am less afraid.
I see what you are saying with the house analogy. I want to take your analogy further, but not to be argumentative. I'm just trying to deepen the analogy so that it rings more true to me, thereby showing a little more of my perspective. What if the person that 1 resident of the 3 doesn't like is a person that just saved the life of 1 of the other residents? Or if the disliked person needed a place to stay to escape their abusive spouse? If we do what the 1 of 3 wants, then the 2 of 3 don't get what they want. And neither does the guest. When do we do what the 1 wants and when do we do what the others want? (I'm not sure that question really has a specific answer; I'm just throwing it out there for thought.)
I get that some people have fears. But we already have extensive vetting for all who come here. Instead of changing the law, the administration should inform people of how much is done in that regard. If people knew all that we did, they would not be so afraid. But Trump took the path of telling people only he could save them. For that to work, he has to make sure people think they need saving.
Truly an honest question coming up. Were you answering my question as to why we needed the change in law that Trump made? Cuz I don't think I am quite getting that if you did.
I also want to clarify that this isn't a black and white issue. (Not that you think it is - I just want to clarify this.) There is no all-safe option. There is no all-danger option. It is a continuum. I think the current immigration policy and vetting procedures are already far enough towards the safe/restrictive end, and away from the danger/loose end. You want the slider moved further towards safe/restrictive, I believe. And you think that Trump's changes do just that. I think his changes don't actually move it towards that end. I think they make things much more restrictive for some people, and not any safer for anyone.