[quote author="PANDA" date=1235552836][quote author="acpme" date=1235552108]panda, sorry buddy but i'm with BV on this one (edit: i just read the above post and that was unnecessary. even panda doesn't deserve that to be mentioned)
<em>"Can you please share with all of us what these personal questions were that you felt was a little invading because i don?t recall?"
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um... why would i do that? panda, you have to seriously be daft to ask such a question. this just shows that you don't get. but in any case i'll bite, because it wasn't so much the questions that were personal but the answers and content of related discussions. if you want to meet someone, know their real name, ask for their cell phone number, talk to them about their home, neighborhood, family, education, business, church, etc., ask for their regular email address, ask them to link to you on facebook (which reveals a whole lot of other information as a result)... well then, you are asking a lot of strangers quite frankly. and for those people who have revealed some or all of those things to you, they've given you some amount of trust. the least you can do is reciprocate by not pretending to be different people.
this is what you tend to do. you ask a question and are expecting a particular answer, i.e. you're looking for affirmation for some crazy idea. when you don't get that affirmation, you go, "but.. but.. but..." and keep pushing for the answer you want. it never happens of course, so you created QHsurfer to ask those questions instead, thinking it was your panda persona that you didn't get you the affirmation you sought. when that didn't work either, you would respond to QHsurfer from your panda acct to steer the discussion the way you wanted, as skek so profoundly pointed out. you're like a kid who won't take no for an answer, and will find some way to get it even if you have to be manipulative about it - not because malicious or devious, but because you're just so desperately seeking approval.
what i don't get is... did you seriously believe no one would give you an unbiased answer to equity withdraw or loan mod questions even if it came from panda? well you know, normally i'd say it's a terrific idea to pull equity out in this current economic environment, but because it's panda asking, i'll have to say NO. please... everyone gives their honest input. and don't blame your little charade on anyone else. i thought your apology was pretty half-baked. nice of you to play the victim by indirectly blaming the rest of us for not taking you seriously, not to mention directly accusing graphrix of having some sort of vendetta against you. get over yourself, man. like your welcome back speech, in which you had to subtlely call out several people again, your original apology reeked of insincerity - especially that farewell bit.
"this will be my last day on IHB"... real mature... who actually believe that? that's something niece would say. she'd get caught stealing cookies before dinner and at first she'd try to cutely shrug her shoulders and say sorry. after we stopped giving in to that routine, she'd say, "fine i won't eat cookies anymore. i won't eat anything at all ever again never ever! i'll just starve!" then stomp out of the room, expecting someone to sympathize and bring her back. of course the rest of us sit down to dinner and ignore her. sure enough few minutes later she comes peaking into the room looking to join us. pretty lame, right?
now i don't for a moment think you had any malice, ever. i just think you really don't understand how you come off. it's not the goofiness that is getting you in trouble. i think you try to be goofy but you're not that guy in real life. bkshopr, i find to be a truly goofy guy, and yet everyone here will read every word he types with careful consideration. so repeat, it's not the goofiness. it's the subtle creepiness combined with the childish way you go about asking questions and seeking answers.</blockquote>
ACPME, i don't understand? I thought you and I were friends. I don't understand where all of this hatred is coming from. I've done nothing wrong against you. My style is to collect and gather as much information i can before making a final decision. I've PMed you because i thought we were friends. I am a little shocked to see your post.</blockquote>
Careful ACMPE. He will claim that he's your friend. Then he will throw you under the bus saying he has no clue who you are.
Step is really sad tonight.....