socal78
Well-known member
People. When somebody returns your wallet to you with everything accounted for, have some etiquette and thank them with a $20 at least. Geez.
I just got back from vacation. While we were playing mini-golf, I found a tourist's backpack laying on the course. It contained a cell phone, expensive sun glasses, and a wallet with a huge wad of vacation cash among other things. I dropped what I was doing to try and find the person who matched the photo ID on the golf course. I preferred to give it to her directly instead of turning it into the office hoping the employee wouldn't take the cash and just say it was turned in that way. After a while, I couldn't find it her so I turned it in. A half hour and a bunch of missed turns later, the lady walked by me. I asked if she was looking for her bag. Yup. I told her everything is ok, I got it before somebody else could rob the bag - it's all there, safe & sound. She just turned around and walked off to go get her stuff. Not so much as a thanks. My boy was upset we didn't have time to finish the course because I was busy trying to return her valuables to her.
This is the 3rd time the same thing has happened. I always wondered why my father said if he found another person's wallet again he'd leave it there or just throw it away. Now I get it. He's found a wallet with an out of town ID. He drove an hour to the guy's apartment to return it to him safely. The guy grabbed it and slammed the door in his face. That's really nice. I have had my own wallet stolen before after I dropped it in a dressing room at the Brea Mall. It is a sick feeling. I would gladly give the person who returned it at least 1/4 to 1/2 of what I was carrying in cash if they returned all things to me safely. It is not fun having to replace your driver's license, credit cards, cash, any medications, purse, glasses, etc., etc. But I guess even though I consider that proper etiquette and wouldn't bat an eyelash at thanking somebody for their honesty / time / effort, most people do not operate the same way. Next time I'll just leave it sit there and let somebody else deal with it however they want to, hope for the best. :
Unfortunately, I think most people will just help themselves.
I just got back from vacation. While we were playing mini-golf, I found a tourist's backpack laying on the course. It contained a cell phone, expensive sun glasses, and a wallet with a huge wad of vacation cash among other things. I dropped what I was doing to try and find the person who matched the photo ID on the golf course. I preferred to give it to her directly instead of turning it into the office hoping the employee wouldn't take the cash and just say it was turned in that way. After a while, I couldn't find it her so I turned it in. A half hour and a bunch of missed turns later, the lady walked by me. I asked if she was looking for her bag. Yup. I told her everything is ok, I got it before somebody else could rob the bag - it's all there, safe & sound. She just turned around and walked off to go get her stuff. Not so much as a thanks. My boy was upset we didn't have time to finish the course because I was busy trying to return her valuables to her.
This is the 3rd time the same thing has happened. I always wondered why my father said if he found another person's wallet again he'd leave it there or just throw it away. Now I get it. He's found a wallet with an out of town ID. He drove an hour to the guy's apartment to return it to him safely. The guy grabbed it and slammed the door in his face. That's really nice. I have had my own wallet stolen before after I dropped it in a dressing room at the Brea Mall. It is a sick feeling. I would gladly give the person who returned it at least 1/4 to 1/2 of what I was carrying in cash if they returned all things to me safely. It is not fun having to replace your driver's license, credit cards, cash, any medications, purse, glasses, etc., etc. But I guess even though I consider that proper etiquette and wouldn't bat an eyelash at thanking somebody for their honesty / time / effort, most people do not operate the same way. Next time I'll just leave it sit there and let somebody else deal with it however they want to, hope for the best. :
