paydawg
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Panda said:"I think the point is that being prepared for academic rigor/university life does not necessarily translate into being prepared for success in real life."
I completely agree with nyc to oc's post. I think it is important to welcome new fresh ideas and IrvineRes88 is someone here giving a different prospective from the "herd" mentality of this forum. The discussion becomes healthy when we are respectful and welcoming of other people's ideas and thoughts. Otherwise this forum gets to be seriously boring with posters who can only see the tree and not the forest. Wasn't there a thread by another OP last week of "Why are the conversations on TalkIrvine so boring?"
I don't disagree with what IrvineRes88 has to say here. Please let the man speak.
Honestly.. my inspiration and goal for my children is not for them to get straight A's and get into an Ivy. I want them to be emotionally intelligent, help them to have good interpersonal and leadership skills, help them discover their gifts and passion in life, teach them how to be financially independent and think like an entrepeneur, and most importantly love them unconditionally.
nyc to oc said:paydawg said:IrvineRes88 said:I think Irvine is good for parents that want to live in an environment that feels comfortable, Asian markets, restaurants, congregate with people from the same culture background, it is actually disadvantageous for kids, the rules of college admission has changed drastically in the last few years, I guess colleges don't want their campus to look like Irvine?! Asians packaged (high SAT, GPA, community service, internship, etc) high achievers are considered "boring applicants" so if your sole purpose in Irvine is to get into a top college, it actually works against you.
This is one of the most ridiculous things I've read on TI. My opinion is that living in Irvine DOES have an advantage. Your child is in an environment that is focused on education -- which, more than anything, prepares them for the rigors of university life. "boring applicants" is subjective to each admissions office. What are other cities/districts doing that would set your child apart from the "boring" Irvine schools? I'm interested in hearing an answer to that.
I think the point is that being prepared for academic rigor/university life does not necessarily translate into being prepared for success in real life. The mentality needed to grind to get that last 2 points on your test to make the 100% score is not the mentality that is going to make you a better leader, manager or even co-worker.
I too want my child to be passionate and financially independent (who doesn't?). I don't disagree that emotional intelligence/maturity is critical. I think it's more important than actual academics in a child's earlier years. But that's the responsibility of the parent's to handle, not the child's school.
But to insinuate that high achievers are "boring" or work against you in college admissions sounds crazy. Yes, universities are striving for diversity and will not admit a 100% Asian class, but would you rather be an Asian applicant from a top school district or an Asian from a mid-tier school district?....and would you rather have been tested in high school or breezed thru high school?
Don't sell your kids short. They can be straight A students, be high achievers, AND be emotionally intelligent, have passion for a vocation, have a healthy social life, be a leader....and be Asian, coming from a high school where Asians aren't the minority. Dream big.