IrvineRes88,
I can completely understand where you are coming and this is coming from an Asian American father of twin boys who are currently in kindegarten. Although I live more than a 1000 miles away from you, my children attend an elementary school where more than 50% of the school demographics are Asians. We recently had a teacher conference and although our boys are doing fine in school, academically they are performing slightly above the average level. The teacher told us that even tought our boys are doing well in their reading and math, due to the competitive nature of the school, many of the parents are putting their kids throught private tutoring and kumon after class so their kids can get ahead.
My wife and I want to raise our kids differently from the herd mentally of our Asiancentric school environment. Many of the parents of here are first generation Asian immigrants and still have the mentality my parents once had where getting straight A's in school is the equation for success in the real world. When a child is in kindergarten, first, second, or third grade or even 4th, they should be playing outside with their friends and not sitting in private tutoring or kumon classes for 2-3 hours after class to get ahead.
IrvineRes, I don't disagree with you that this is an unhealthy environment for your children as this demographics is not the representative of what the real world looks like. One of things I enjoy about living where I live is the close proximity and access to Asian restaurtants, groceries, and shopping centers, but if I can do it over again... I would much rather have them attend a school where the demographics were not so heavily concentrated with Asian students. My entire street and adjacent street are now made of 85% Asian households. The ratio was more like 25% Asian households when I first moved to my subdivision 5 years ago.