nVFWIrvine_IHB
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blueray,
You will be able to pass down your belief/habit to your children if you and your wife set your mind to it.
As I stated in my previous post, my family has been here over a century. Though I speak little Japanese I still fit most of bkshopr's descriptions. I would not mind living with my aging parents but they chose to live in Hawaii with one of my older brothers. As I grow older, I find myself behaving more and more like my parents. I don't usually buy things I want, I buy things I need.
Some posters here have said that the Asian people they know were different from what bkshopr said, I say give a few more years as those young Asian grow older they may find otherwise. A few Asians I know have been "having fun" and disappointed their parents by not completing a 4-year college. Now in their mid 30's, they told me they finally realized the benefits of higher education and wanted to find ways to go back to school. Recent years some of my biggest clients are mainland Chinese and they don't have a problem with me being a Japanese. My impression of Chinese is that they are very shrewd. They don't let their emotion (hating Japanese) influence their business decisions.
I am not saying bkshopr's descriptions fit all Asians or his descriptions 100% accurate. I can find myself somewhat different a bit. To name a few, We could probably afford luxury cars but choose to drive economy ones. Thus, we saved most of our income to buy our first and 2nd house in Irvine without help from our parents. My wife and I do shop at REI and Adventure16 a lot. We drink coffee outside but having tea at home. We almost never buy name brands. Looking at all these Taiwanese in Irvine, I often wonder if my wife is really Taiwanese, she absolutely hates shopping! Lucky me.
You will be able to pass down your belief/habit to your children if you and your wife set your mind to it.
As I stated in my previous post, my family has been here over a century. Though I speak little Japanese I still fit most of bkshopr's descriptions. I would not mind living with my aging parents but they chose to live in Hawaii with one of my older brothers. As I grow older, I find myself behaving more and more like my parents. I don't usually buy things I want, I buy things I need.
Some posters here have said that the Asian people they know were different from what bkshopr said, I say give a few more years as those young Asian grow older they may find otherwise. A few Asians I know have been "having fun" and disappointed their parents by not completing a 4-year college. Now in their mid 30's, they told me they finally realized the benefits of higher education and wanted to find ways to go back to school. Recent years some of my biggest clients are mainland Chinese and they don't have a problem with me being a Japanese. My impression of Chinese is that they are very shrewd. They don't let their emotion (hating Japanese) influence their business decisions.
I am not saying bkshopr's descriptions fit all Asians or his descriptions 100% accurate. I can find myself somewhat different a bit. To name a few, We could probably afford luxury cars but choose to drive economy ones. Thus, we saved most of our income to buy our first and 2nd house in Irvine without help from our parents. My wife and I do shop at REI and Adventure16 a lot. We drink coffee outside but having tea at home. We almost never buy name brands. Looking at all these Taiwanese in Irvine, I often wonder if my wife is really Taiwanese, she absolutely hates shopping! Lucky me.