The situations that boggle my mind the most is when the parents push the kids to earn college credits in high school only to not use them. My high school best friend took a lot of honors and A.P. classes then bragged about how she could enter college as a sophomore and at barely 17 years old (since she began school a year early when she was younger.) I asked if she is going to do that. She said no. Because her parents want her to have the "4 year experience" at college. What the...?? Then what's the point? Anyway, she attended her parents' school of choice -- UCLA which was their first and only pick to begin with, double-majoring in Economics and Political Science... only to graduate and get a job working as a legal secretary for the next 10 years but started as a file clerk then head secretary before being a legal secretary. Again... WHY? What was the point? When she graduated she didn't even have the advantage of being a paralegal which is something you can easily become through a vocational program or an associate's degree. No need for 4 years at UCLA. She probably could have taken a shortcut if she concentrated on the technical knowledge. Now she is finally V.P. of Operations at the firm -- 14 years later after climbing the ladder just like everybody else.