qwerty said:
You irvinites think sending your kids to the great irvine schools is going to set up your kid for life. I got news for you, your kids are going to be working for the kids from newport beach, or IHS's daughter, she has someone who won't shelter her.
While I understand your sentiment, I don't necessarily agree with it.
It may be cliche, but until you are a parent, you can't truly understand the motivation of being one. Decisions you think you would make change as circumstances change.
You are right, there are no guarantees... but sending your kids to certain schools isn't just about "setting them up for life"... it's about giving them an environment that lets them explore any and all options. For me, the most important thing is safety... and Irvine provides that. It may not be the safest or totally free of questionable influences, but given the parental involvement, there are differences that are measurable.
If I had to choose to send my kids to the school I went to or Irvine schools... it's a no-brainer (even though people like graphrix think they would be fine sending his "non-existent" kids to "ghetto" schools). And while I think I turned out okay despite "lower quality education", a parent always wants more for their children. For all I know, they won't turn out better... but at least I did my best as a parent to give them that opportunity.
Your opinion cuts both ways, just as much as "good schools" won't guarantee a kid's success later in life, "sheltering" will not necessarily force them into a life of subservience to IHS' daughter either.
To me, rankings like this isn't just about API scores, racial profiles or economic background... just about having a better environment for my children to be in.
P.S. IHS' daughter went to top ranked IUSD/TUDS schools too.