qwerty said:Irvine Dream said:A friend of mine of East Indian decent has this rule for his children:SoCal said:Background info: Davina felt like an outsider while growing up, being an Indian in a neighborhood of whites. She claims the other kids taunted her. FFW to her adult life -- rather than this experience turning her off from whites, she ONLY seeks the attention of whites, rejecting even her own men. WTH? I'm going to play armchair psychologist here and say the reason she wants so badly to fit in with whites is that this must be her way of dealing with what happened to her in the past. I don't know if she sees the connection, though, as I haven't finished watching the whole 2-hour episode.
So, so, SO many different layers to this one. But at the end of the day, I think it's her loss. By severely restricting the pool of candidates and not even giving anybody else a chance, she may be missing out on a great match. It looks like the experts in charge of this did pair her up with a white husband, as demanded. We'll see how this goes.
Son can marry any race other than white and black
Daughter to marry pref White but not East Indian/Asian, Black.
Now, now don't shoot me, I am just saying my friend's rule. Funny thing is I pointed out that if his wife's parents followed the same rule then he wouldn't be married to his wife. But then he argued since they were both brought up in India it was OK but adamant that for girls growing up in USA an Indian husband will not work ;D
why wouldnt you want the son to marry a white girl? my first wife was white - to show that i had made it
Interesting - how many times were you married?