The irritating thing about this conversation I was in with the broker was how he kept insisting that it was a personal choice, if I was more focused on the short term and didn't "want to have a home" as he put it (which immediately pissed me off), then "being a renter" was the decision that was best for me and my situation. As though I were somehow deficient, still pushing that "lowly renter" propaganda, and am not truly a grown-up since I rent from a landlord instead of a bank (my words,not his!). At about that point, another hiker started to get really defensive and I realized I probably needed to just shut up - earlier in the hike she had mentioned that she just bought a house. I had become almost strident in my argument because I was letting this guy's mortgage broker spin get me angry. So I shut up but by that time we were back at the starting point. I will try to avoid the topic from now on at these hikes, because other than that, they are a lot of fun and a great workout.