k.o.
I suspect you're also Asian, as am I. Sometimes when people express things about a particular asian culture, it can hit home as a stereotype, racist, or derogatory perception our culture/ethnicity. It's normal to feel a bit hurt, but at the same time, we have to look at our cultures and see some truth in some of this. We may not fit the "generalizations" but I sure know many in my circles that do fit those generalizations and stereotypes. I don't really care if I'm 'thrown' into those stereotypes because frankly, I have at times have "stereotyped" people into a category, when I probably should not have. I bet some of us on this blog have some stereotype of people who have HELOC'd themselves out of their homes without know the whole story. What would you do if your child was sick and you need $150,000 for organ transplant or some other life saving medical procedure. I'd HELOC myself out of my home in heartbeat to save my girls.
If this were a typical forum, a lot of these threads would be locked and mud would be thrown all over the place. BK's postings are from his / her studies of the asian culture, buying habits and architecture. While we may not all fit BK's generalizations, his knowledge and perceptions uncannily match my own perceptions and view of various asian cultures. Sometimes the postings hit home a bit hard for me too, but then I realize that's because his perceptions are my reality.