[quote author="caycifish" date=1240993415]I see a point getting muddled here.
My point (and I think Graph's, too) was not to use the "yuckiness" of Compton as an excuse to not go to a museum, for example. I went to Little Toyko (and we tried to go to MOCA but it was closed. Doh!) despite the homeless people. And Curry House was fantastic. So was Noe inside the Omni Hotel (down the street from the Disney Concert Hall). I can recommend both.
I certainly wasn't suggesting anyone purposely take their children into the middle of real danger. However, one shouldn't avoid the good out of unreasonable fear of the bad.
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See that's the thing... it's really hard for singles/couples to understand the difficulties that parents have when having to take into account their children. Graph can joke about totlots all he wants but one day... I'm gonna see him pushing Graphito on a swing and I'm gonna' "punch him in the head" for not dragging his kid to Little Tokyo instead.
Back before kids, that stuff was easy... I never even thought about safety, distance or traffic. But now... it's usually better to stay closer to home because you never know when crankiness will set in, when they want to only eat at their favorite pizza place or whatever. Graph can rant all he wants about sheltering and depriving my kids of "culture"... but as you can attest to... there is always time for that.
It's all perspective. Sure, you guys think you're safe and that may be true. But coming from someone who's experienced violence in a seemingly safe situation, I will always be cautious and try to reduce exposing my family to it. Other than bk... you can see that those of us who grew up in the LA 'hood... don't prefer to go back there. Don't diss us for it... you haven't lived where we have.
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And dude, don't get me started with your comp sci stuff. The most culture you can claim is the Think Geek catalog. (Yes, I own several of their t-shirts.) You aren't fooling me. I found out today I have to get some IT uber-security cert of some sort (new client requirement). And no, it will not be "culture". Education, yes. Culture, no.</blockquote>
Like I was alluding too... "culture" is relative. I bet a bunch of comp nerds sitting around playing World of Warcraft get just as much "cultural" satisfaction as others get out of a museum visit. And for some... education IS culture (heck... most Asians in Irvine think that way). In the last 25 years... what do you think has made the biggest impact on society? Hint: It's not hanging at some art exhibit.
And yeah... OC beaches are pretty good. As much as I liked bodysurfing at 'Dondo and Manhattan Beach... Newport waves were way more fun (and cleaner). There were just more surfboarders here than LA and they have no respect for bodysurfing purists like myself (no fins, no bodyboards... just me and the waves).