sleepy5136 said:
The California Court Company said:
After living in Irvine for 15 years, I don't miss Irvine at all. Too dense, too many people and too artificial. I guess only south of 405 is worth considering.
bones said:
If that?s what you?re looking for, you may want to shop around for that. Not every neighborhood and/or tract has that environment. And after living in more Irvine villages than I can count, a lot of it is luck. I hope you find what you?re looking for in Irvine schools. Sometimes the expectations do not meet reality
agree. I came from LA and actually wanted to buy in Irvine initially. But after seeing how dense, the MR, materialistic vibes, and the lack of diversity in the area, I personally think the Irvine premium is definitely overrated. sure, if I wanted max ROI in my home, Irvine would be the best option, but I don't care about max ROI in my primary residence. I'd rather put more $ in stocks instead.
Also, when I have kids, I don't want them to be surrounded by all these rich kids that have the latest iPhones, brand named bags, etc at the age of 12. The value of a dollar is very important and I wouldn't want my kids surrounded by kids that do not understand the value of a dollar.
As for schools, schools are important, but let's not try to act like learning 1+1 or calculating a derivative requires the "best" school. I would argue what is more important for kids is having parents that know how to parent. I'm shocked at how many parents don't even know how to be parents and that has more impact on a childs future than a not so great school. Obviously I'm not talking about schools in the ghetto. I'm focusing on the difference between IUSD vs SVUSD. Idk about you guys, but if some kid graduated from Harvard or University of Hawaii, it doesn't really matter to me despite how much society likes to say there exists a difference.
I'm in total disagreement with your sentiments, but I guess to each his own. I felt like I needed to share my own entirely subjective opinion about each of your points.
1) Irvine's density is relative to what city you're comparing to. So calling it "too" dense is subjective. In fact, it is the safest large city in the US (according to OC register, google, etc.), so do expect some more density over "smaller" cities. But, if you compare to some other costly "large" cities/areas (e.g. West LA, SGV) Irvine is not as dense. Finally, there are both advantages and disadvantages to density, of which I feel that you only addressed the latter. For instance, the fact that Irvine is a main hub for employers has only become reality because of the density of the city.
2) As many have mentioned on this thread the MR actually drives spend on resources for the Irvine community - whether it be schools, parks, community centers, etc. In my mind, this is a good thing for Irvine residents. And yes, it does not promote egalitarianism across other cities. But that's what makes Irvine unique and why I would in fact want to have my kids have that environment to have access to the additional "paid for by MR" resources, well maintained facilities, etc. It is indeed in the public's interest to have the rich cover for the poorer communities, but that is not how reality works and not how most well-off families want their well-earned money to be allocated. Case in point, I'm pretty certain that other cities are not sharing their residents' tax dollars with other cities.
3) In any affluent area you're going to see materialism because residents tend to have $. Whether that be Palos Verdes, La Canada, San Marino, South Pasadena, or Irvine. I only named a handful, most in LA county since that's where I'm from. In regards to my children being surrounded by other kids with materialistic goods and understanding the value of the $, I think that really comes down to how you raise your kids. Parents are gatekeepers after all, and while my neighbor might give their kids anything they want, I'll certainly choose to give my kids what they need rather than what they always want. I wouldn't strip them from having a cell-phone but they certainly wouldn't require the latest iPhone or an LV purse. Now, being surrounded by more affluent folks is actually a very good thing from my perspective. If you notice trends, many people form networks based off socioeconomic status (SES). In this world, the affluent networks tend to usually have more leverage - meaning better connections and more resources than lower SES groups. Is this fair? Nope, but it's life. Would I want my family to have opportunity to be in that network - yes absolutely. You also mentioned Harvard vs University of HI. There in lies a great analogy to the value of prestigious/high SES networks. Technically, the networks from Harvard are much more robust and prestigious than University of HI. So much so that many employers would take a Harvard grad over a University of HI grad if all else was equal. Quality of your connections and networks DO drive higher incomes and better jobs. Incidentally, wealth also drives safer communities, and better education/resources for our young ones - thereby a vicious albeit unfair (if you care for egalitarianism) cycle.
4) Yes, there is lack of diversity in Irvine - a high proportion of east asians comprise the Irvine demographic. I'm ABC myself, but I do appreciate the values of my culture and my ethnic background. For instance, not as many of my non-asian friends value education as highly as my asian counterparts. Not many of my non-asian friends take off their shoes before entering the household. Not many of my non-asian friends are as cautious about COVID as I've seen asians are generally. Culture does impact how we act in society and it is important. Now in an ideal world having diversity would also be ideal, but ultimately the lack in racial diversity in Irvine happens to also be the reason why there is SES uniformity there. Not discriminating here, but SES status is in fact correlated with ethnicity. Statistics clearly show that caucasians and the model minorities tend to have higher spending power/affluence over other ethnicities in general. So these people, which happen to be a high proportion of caucasians and asian hold the same values/beliefs (e.g. education matters) are driven to live in Irvine - again a vicious cycle.
As an actual parent, I'm personally selecting to have my kids grow up with folks of higher SES and to build those networks for my kids despite lack of "racial" diversity.