"<i>I think you analyze and worry too much. I sold a home to someone who is just like you. Indecision and fear of buying was driving him and his whole family to the wall."</i><p>
NIR - Your client doesn't sound anything like IR and although it may be convenient to characterize IR as too analytical, worrisome, indecisive or fearful, my experience in this blog is that IR is pretty much the opposite of your characterization. IR is anything but indecisive. It takes guts, thoughtful analysis, and self-determination to sell when everyone else is buying, or when everyone is saying if you don't buy now you may not be able to buy later, or you can afford a 55% DTI, or they wouldn't loan you the money if you couldn't afford it, or if you want it bad enough you can do it, or any number of fallacies told to potential buyers in order to close a deal and make a commission. My experience is that IR is thoughtful and intelligent, not over analytical. I have seen nothing to indicate that he worries about his decisions. Au contraire, he seems very happy with his decision to rent and buy at an advantageous time. And he is anything but fearful, which is a reaction to the unknown. Since he has taken the time to look at the re market objectively, he seems to be very knowledgeable about the re market and has nothing to fear.<p>
And how could he possibly feel poorly about the advice he has given? Have you read the thread regarding how much money this blog has saved folks by helping them decide to rent instead of buy? He ought to patting himself on the back, unlike any who may have denied the obvious signals the market has been sending and have advised folks to get themselves in over their financial heads in a mortgage that will cause them to lose their homes, equity, savings, and cause financial and emotional pain. Thank goodness for folks like IR who are willing to tell the truth.