jbatzmaru,
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Humble – adjective 1. not proud or arrogant; modest: to be humble although successful.
</em>This is something I struggle with, and what I am going to say is probably not the most humble thing, but I have said most of it already, so it is not new.
I am a homeowner, in a nice area, with a small mortgage for what it is "worth". I am a partner in an investment property, since 96, that is net cash flow positive. I have bought and sold (both without an agent, hehe) two other homes in the last five years. I have mentioned that I trade, and trade almost daily. I have even mention specific trades. Some would have been good, some would have been losers.
The point is, I never mention the money or worth of any of these things. Why? Because it doesn't matter. It doesn't make me better person by what I am worth. It doesn't mean that I am smarter than anyone else by what I am "worth". Trust me, I know some of the dumbest people who are er were millionaires, but because of their stupidity lost it all. I know some extremely intelligent people, who may not be millionaires now, but they will be one day, and they will never lose it all.
I have hung out with true <em>old </em>money people back east. You know... the <em>old</em> money, that have had trust funds set up several generations ago. Never, not once, do they ever mention what amount of money they have or what they are "worth". Why? Because, their parents, grandparents, and the parents before them taught them the importance of being humble. And, I know that they have a boatload of money, by watching them bust out the AMEX black, that they got automatically when they turned 18, to pay for the $800 dinner at The Mesa Grill. How much are they "worth"? I could care less, because again, the money doesn't make the person.
I have made several friends here. And, none of them would care if I had what I stated above, or whether I lived in a dumpy studio apartment in Santa Ana, with just enough money to eat for the next week. They don't judge me for what I have, they judge me by who I am. And, that is why they are my friends.