irvinesinglemom_IHB
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I was a stay at home mom for a little while and all I can say is, my life got a whole helluva lot harder when I returned to work. Forget about working out, first of all. All those beautiful, muscular women you see with kids? They don't sit at a desk 9 hours a day. THey drop the kid off at the gym daycare, work out for 90 minutes, then go sit with their other beautiful friends and drink coffee.
No, when you work, you have to be up and awake at the crack of dawn no matter how little sleep your kid allowed you to get that night; you have to get that kid dressed and fed and out the door and dropped off at daycare and be on time at work. THen you have to work all day long, and then race to daycare after. And by that time you're starving, but by the time you get home, the thought of preparing and cooking a healthy dinner is overwhelming 80% of the time, and you just serve cereal or something. THen it's non-stop mom-mode the whole rest of the evening.
Honestly, I don't know many working moms who watch any tv. Personally I haven't had cable in years. I do know that when I stayed at home, I did watch tv,and I did go shopping for fun, and I spent lots of time on the computer. Not that it was at all easy! I was blessed with a baby whose definition of a good night's sleep was only waking up 5 times during the night instead of 10 times, until he was two years old. So I was pretty much a zombie for two years. Then at 2, he started sleeping through the night (from 9pm to about 4am), but that's when he stopped taking naps!
Each person's situation is different, and I'm not saying that everyone's situation is like mine. I just find it hard to understand Socal's comment that staying home with kids can be harder than some full time jobs. That just doesn't compute, since when you leave your job, you have to pick up your kids, go grocery shopping, cook a healthy dinner, run to the post office or cleaners, help with homework, clean the house, and otherwise do all the stuff that you could have been doing all day long if you were a stay-at-home...when I leave work, it's not like my day just ends with my feet up on the sofa!
No, when you work, you have to be up and awake at the crack of dawn no matter how little sleep your kid allowed you to get that night; you have to get that kid dressed and fed and out the door and dropped off at daycare and be on time at work. THen you have to work all day long, and then race to daycare after. And by that time you're starving, but by the time you get home, the thought of preparing and cooking a healthy dinner is overwhelming 80% of the time, and you just serve cereal or something. THen it's non-stop mom-mode the whole rest of the evening.
Honestly, I don't know many working moms who watch any tv. Personally I haven't had cable in years. I do know that when I stayed at home, I did watch tv,and I did go shopping for fun, and I spent lots of time on the computer. Not that it was at all easy! I was blessed with a baby whose definition of a good night's sleep was only waking up 5 times during the night instead of 10 times, until he was two years old. So I was pretty much a zombie for two years. Then at 2, he started sleeping through the night (from 9pm to about 4am), but that's when he stopped taking naps!
Each person's situation is different, and I'm not saying that everyone's situation is like mine. I just find it hard to understand Socal's comment that staying home with kids can be harder than some full time jobs. That just doesn't compute, since when you leave your job, you have to pick up your kids, go grocery shopping, cook a healthy dinner, run to the post office or cleaners, help with homework, clean the house, and otherwise do all the stuff that you could have been doing all day long if you were a stay-at-home...when I leave work, it's not like my day just ends with my feet up on the sofa!