[quote author="SoCal78" date=1228973557][quote author="blackvault_cm" date=1228968884]...she will be going into early-retirement when the baby comes. Early as in she's 28... So yeah she wants a house, the white fence, and pretty flowers.
I told her I better have food on the table, clothes ironed, and a massage every so often if she wants to stay home. I was dead serious too.</blockquote>
Gah! I can assure you it is no vacation, BV. It is more work than many full-time jobs. I'm a credible source, as I've been "retired" for 5 1/2 years now. I actually had a couple friends return to work so they could catch a "break". No kidding. Careful what you say, boy! ;-)</blockquote>
Thats her defense. So I ask her, well how about we put the baby in day care and you can continue to work? She says no way, and smiles with a little embarassment. The point is, it takes work...but it is a job probably more enjoyable than any other I can think of. Now I know babies need more care at first, so my expectations aren't as high. (I raised my little bro when we came to US, he was 3 months old then)
When you are that excited to have a baby, and take care of one like I see my wife is...I don't buy the fact that its work.
I trade stocks...I don't consider that work because I love it. I'd do it for free.
But she's a good girl, so I'm not really worried. Anyway, I feel people are glaring at me as I'm invading this thread.
Resume back to Northwood II, I'm leaving. *waves*