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[quote author="CK" date=1250820915][quote author="SoCal78" date=1250820076]
Conversations on the housing market in Irvine and OC can be found on the Real Estate board in their respective categories. This is a Lifestyle board under the Off Topic / Water Cooler section.
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I dunno, SoCal. Around the watercooler at the office we talk about all sorts of lifestyle issues --- but Politics and Religion are never a part of those conversations. And on the off event someone less adept at office etiquette does bring up those topics, the crowd will scatter pretty quickly. There is a good reason for that. I've also thought of IHB as almost like a workplace --- or professional society --- the level of knowledge out here is that good. So along those lines --- just like at the workplace --- wedge topics tend to dillute the broader conversation.
Don't get me wrong and think I am saying those discussions don't have merit, its just that they have an appropriate time (and place).</blockquote>
You know I love ya, CK. It's sort of funny -- you see it as a corporate environment and I see it as a neighborhood on a normal day and the wild, wild west on a crazy day. The first time I first visited these forums, I was really expecting a "serious" site with strict & professional moderation that was highly "adept" at etiquette itself...and very little personality. What I found instead was quite a surprise, to say the least. In any case, I wouldn't consider it poor etiquette if someone came up to the water cooler at work and asked RC to help answer a theological question. I'm not sure who here you are saying is "less adept at etiquette". I think Cayci's first comment had plenty of etiquette, as did RC, and hey, I even think qwerty displayed some etiquette in what he had to say. If I were a moderator, I would take your idea into consideration although I wouldn't be sure how to implement or enforce it. Segregating topics would be difficult. But, hey, that's why I decided not to be a (full fledged) moderator... it's not my time or place. If it's me who you think lacked etiquette crossing professional boundaries, just know that I had enough etiquette to turn down a larger role here out of respect for the administration so there wouldn't be conflict. (I don't mean this post to sound rude because of course you are my friend who I respect and I don't mean any harm. You know that. I'll let you have the last word.)
Conversations on the housing market in Irvine and OC can be found on the Real Estate board in their respective categories. This is a Lifestyle board under the Off Topic / Water Cooler section.
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I dunno, SoCal. Around the watercooler at the office we talk about all sorts of lifestyle issues --- but Politics and Religion are never a part of those conversations. And on the off event someone less adept at office etiquette does bring up those topics, the crowd will scatter pretty quickly. There is a good reason for that. I've also thought of IHB as almost like a workplace --- or professional society --- the level of knowledge out here is that good. So along those lines --- just like at the workplace --- wedge topics tend to dillute the broader conversation.
Don't get me wrong and think I am saying those discussions don't have merit, its just that they have an appropriate time (and place).</blockquote>
You know I love ya, CK. It's sort of funny -- you see it as a corporate environment and I see it as a neighborhood on a normal day and the wild, wild west on a crazy day. The first time I first visited these forums, I was really expecting a "serious" site with strict & professional moderation that was highly "adept" at etiquette itself...and very little personality. What I found instead was quite a surprise, to say the least. In any case, I wouldn't consider it poor etiquette if someone came up to the water cooler at work and asked RC to help answer a theological question. I'm not sure who here you are saying is "less adept at etiquette". I think Cayci's first comment had plenty of etiquette, as did RC, and hey, I even think qwerty displayed some etiquette in what he had to say. If I were a moderator, I would take your idea into consideration although I wouldn't be sure how to implement or enforce it. Segregating topics would be difficult. But, hey, that's why I decided not to be a (full fledged) moderator... it's not my time or place. If it's me who you think lacked etiquette crossing professional boundaries, just know that I had enough etiquette to turn down a larger role here out of respect for the administration so there wouldn't be conflict. (I don't mean this post to sound rude because of course you are my friend who I respect and I don't mean any harm. You know that. I'll let you have the last word.)