[quote author="SoCal78" date=1222235134][quote author="Astute Observer" date=1222213086][q]I like to help others and have done volunteer work with the American Cancer Society, fed the homeless at a soup kitchen for a few years, helped with a pajama drive for a local children?s home, etc. [/q]
I have a friend who is black, and I have another friend who is from India, and one of my neighbors is asian, so I am not racist.
Joking aside, I feel all the things you do as volunteer is very admirable.</blockquote>
Yeah, it's true those things can't prove I am not cocky, as the question poses... but helping less fortunate people tends to humble you (it certainly does me) and I think cocky people generally lack humbleness. Everyday I am thankful that I have a roof over my head and in a nice, safe area no less... food to eat, clothes to wear, and my family is in good health. Volunteering at a free dental clinic allowed me to help give care to low-income children who likely won't receive regular checkups because their parents can't afford it but it makes me thankful for having access to good care. Knowing that "orphans" usually don't even own a single pair of pajamas and have to sleep in their clothes - makes me very thankful my kids have a drawer-full. It is impossible to be cocky when you see that your needs are met and those of others aren't. I think a lot of OC'ers become complacent... like bratty little children in adult bodies it's all about "ME, ME, ME" and they think everyone has what we have. They do not. When I see some poser speeding by me in a hot red Corvette (yesterday) I look at that and wonder how many hungry kids they could feed or buy school supplies for with that money instead or how many more nights a mother and child could stay protected in a shelter and away from domestic abuse because of their help. Store up your treasures in heaven - not here on earth! Stepping off my soapbox now.</blockquote>
Socal,
I think buying a home in Irvine may not be suitable for you. The services you do are not in Irvine. Irvine has no program or shelters for the needy and helpless. There is a battered women shelter by UCI and that is it. The local politics and economic formula drove many decisions. NIMBYism is why I left Irvine.