+1 I was thinking the same. Took a wrong turn at Yuma 7 pages ago and kept on going.AW said:Boy, this thread sure went way off tangent
AW said:Qwerty, Yeah, I don't think the route you took is considered luck, I'm sure where you are now might be better than others who are smarter, more talented or more hard working, but there is some intrinsic value you bring (as well as some "luck"/good fortune/great timing), it's not like you were to be a gardener...
qwerty said:Panda - it's like you know me
I was raised in a low income family. My dad had a fifth grade education and mom was third grade. My dad was a laborer, all the back breaking work literally ruined his back. He had back surgery at 51 and was disabled since then. For the next 28 years of his life he had back problems. He could still walk and get around but couldn't lift anything heavy, couldn't sit in the same location for very long, he would lie down in the living room since that is what relieved the pain. He was actually a very smart man, that is where I got whatever brains I have now. His hard work didn't translate into much.
I am self made, I'm a success story any way you slice it, achieving what I have, coming from a Mexican family that doesn't put the same value on education as Asians/Indians/whites, I would say makes it even more impressive. When I was in high school I told my friends I would write a book one day on how to make it in America.
Maybe one day you will be recommending my book one day
There are many successful people on this board, you are one of them, what you have going in johns creek sounds great, I admire people who take risks, I'm relatively conservative although I do gamble on stocks. But I've never had the courage to start my own thing like you or Paris or R2D
I'm sure there are very similar stories to mine from people here, but I think we lose sight that most of us are the exceptions to the rule. We should not forget about the less fortunate. I'm not sure if this law will do any good but I hope so.
Almost forgot - all men are perverted when it comes to women, I just say what others are thinking
qwerty said:I am self made, I'm a success story any way you slice it, achieving what I have, coming from a Mexican family that doesn't put the same value on education as Asians/Indians/whites, I would say makes it even more impressive. When I was in high school I told my friends I would write a book one day on how to make it in America.
Panda said:I've never met Qwerty in person, but have read his posts on and off for the past 8 years. From what I know of him, he is self-made. He bought his house in Tustin with his own hard work and sweat equity without any parental help. Qwerty was probably raised in middle to lower-middle class family and achieved a lot more financial success than his parents. His father didn't seem to be the best role model figure for him and he passed away before he could see his son climb the ranks in Corporate America. Qwerty put himself through college at USC with an accounting degree and busted his butt at the top four accounting firm for 6 years to where he is today. I would say Qwerty is definitely a success story coming from his background.
Now the only thing I don't like about Qwerty is that is he is kinda perverted when it comes to talking about women.
nosuchreality said:The first rule of good fortune is preparation.
The second rule is its still luck. Whether it's grabbing one of 94 spots out of 10,000 highly qualified applicants for medical school or one of the 2000 admission out of 37,000 to Harvard, the difference boils repeatedly down to luck. Are some less qualified, sure, but the majority of them are equally qualified.
The difference can be as simple the someone messing up the interviewers coffee bar order that morning to a complex as they've seen someone else very much like the candidate or as unfortunate as some other idiot ran a red light and hit the interviewee on the way to interview.
The hard work and preparation is the cost of admission to the batters box, the self determination is the will and follow through to swing the bat, the luck is whether your facing Nolan Ryan in his prime or just an average pitcher.
AW said:Well, there are certainly things beyond our control, but hard work, ethics, pursuing goals are within our control.
No point playing the comparison game, we're all under the bell curve here, the people on the extreme ends won't be here on TI.
There are always rags to riches story, I mean look at Tom Vu, came here with nothing and then he's driving a rolls convertible and hanging with babes on his yatch, oh wait...
nosuchreality said:The first rule of good fortune is preparation.
The second rule is its still luck. Whether it's grabbing one of 94 spots out of 10,000 highly qualified applicants for medical school or one of the 2000 admission out of 37,000 to Harvard, the difference boils repeatedly down to luck. Are some less qualified, sure, but the majority of them are equally qualified.
The difference can be as simple the someone messing up the interviewers coffee bar order that morning to a complex as they've seen someone else very much like the candidate or as unfortunate as some other idiot ran a red light and hit the interviewee on the way to interview.
The hard work and preparation is the cost of admission to the batters box, the self determination is the will and follow through to swing the bat, the luck is whether your facing Nolan Ryan in his prime or just an average pitcher.
qwerty said:I have always been a believer that luck plays a big part in ones success. Hard work allows you to take advantage of that luck when it strikes. I always joke with my wife that I don't fall down, I only fall up. Every company I have worked for has printed money, which has meant generous pay packages and a good working environment. Last summer I decided I was going to leave my company with our second child on the way. I thought I was going to take a paycut coming to Orange County. Within a month of me deciding to leave I got calls from two recruiters, got two offers, one for essentially the same money and one for actually more money. What were the chances of that? And the cherry on top was that timing worked out where I got my bonus, my equity vested and then I gave my two week notice. If that's not luck I don't know what is.