irvinehomeowner said:
I'll give a hypothetical where you would not want to be friends with someone at a phase release:
I meet bones, chat with him (her? I think I forgot) and we are friendly.
Then we talk about which lot we want... and we want the same one... except bones is in front of me on the list.
I kindly ask bones if he/she would consider passing... and the rest is up to your imagination.
Would have it been better to not be chummy with bones so if they do take the lot you wanted, you wouldn't care?
Ok maybe we're talking past each other? I'm not saying meet your BFF for life at a phase release. I"m talking about common courtesy... smiling, making super small talk, making eye contact. I got NONE of that at the Arcadia phase release.
And in your hypothetical, shouldn't you not friend any of your kid's friend's parents? Their kid could be taking your kid's spot at Harvard, your kid's athletic scholarship at Stanford, your kid's girl crush to prom. Wouldn't it be better to not be chummy so if any of that happens, you wouldn't care?