socal78
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nyc to oc said:That's what I don't understand. Aren't a lot of these parents moving here for the express purpose of giving their kids an "American style education" and to get away from that horrible pressure? But then end up importing those same practices here anyway...Hence, no Uni, and no IUSD for me.
Funny, that is exactly what I was just told last week from parents who are from India. They have lived in: India, Italy, England, Cupertino, the east coast, and now here in O.C. They say they like it here the best for their son. They said it was way too much pressure in India and a whole lot in Cupertino. In Cupertino, the dad asked the teacher why does she put so much pressure on the kids. He wanted her to ease up. She said she doesn't -- she said it's the parents who are pushing her. So, they moved here to get away from it. Supposedly he enjoys the slightly more relaxed atmosphere. However, the irony in all this is he and his wife were drilling me on what I buy my son, what do I make him do, what extra-curricular am I making him do, what is he reading, what hobbies do I LET him have etc. Their kid is a really good kid and a fantastic student. It's just a head scratcher why they ask if they supposedly are trying to relax a little. I think you summed it up perfectly.