Ready2Downsize
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OCtoSV said:You also lucked into your prime earning years corresponding with a 40 yr bull market in bonds and corresponding decline in long term int rates. Double coupons - I recall those were automatic at Ralphs. We used to use them in the mid 90s but our earnings have increased by almost 10x since then, reflective of the massive wage inflation skilled workers have seen in the Internet age, so I guess Gen X got something after all as my dad's best salary before retirement in the late 80s was 1/8 of what I made last year.
Because we were young and had entered the job market right near the top of interest rates we benefited by inflation ratcheting up or salaries, bigley but on the way there, Boomers had inflation for a decade, year in and year out. By 1984, nurses were being cancelled and sent home early. New RNs had to start out in nursing homes just to find a job.
My friend's dad was in aerospace and lost his job. I walked to high school and and we stopped by her house to "pick her up" and he was always sitting with the paper combing the job listings. I remember thinking, GET A JOB and thinking it was sad that his wife was picking up every substitute teaching job she could get (she had retired as a school principal), but my mom told me it's HARD to get an aerospace job not knowing my parents were worried my dad would lose HIS job which was tied to aerospace.
The builder gave us a loan of 12.5% straight 5 year balloon and I was always worried what would happen when 5 years was up. Luckily rates dropped to 10% and we were able to refinance but there were others in the neighborhood who lost their house with those loans.
When I was in grade school most moms were stay at home moms and had only one car. Somewhere around then, moms started getting a job for a few extras. Sad today double incomes are required.
I was able to save money other ways though. Since I worked evenings, I only paid for a babysitter for a couple hours when I went back to work and worked every weekend so we didn't spend a lot on childcare. We were lucky she didn't kick us to the curb because sometimes my hubby would be late if the bus was late or he missed a connection. The preschool we went to was a morning only mom participation so it was really cheap (I think we paid $20 a month, worked one morning per week, provided snack once a month) and we even got a disneyland tix for mom and child at the end of the year. I never thought my kids learned any less and was happy to watch what was going on in person.
It wasn't all rosy. Money was really tight for us for many years and we got absolutely NO help from any grandparents whose attitudes were that they put in their time and now it's my time to raise my kids by myself. Their loss. But we did benefit big time from inflation ramping up or salaries. We would have done better if we were a few years older but that's the way it goes. You make your own luck.