mino - No. I apologize. I should have been more clear. I don't doubt for a second that folks are equity sharers, but in the same vein, I have no doubt that no one of means is going to equity share in the type of deal that nir has laid out; specifically where the non-live in partner pays half the monthly cost. Unless the non-live in is a parent, in which case all this is irrelevant, because it then becomes a gift and not equity sharing.
Back to nir's original post, the property would rent for $4,500. No one in their right mind would enter an equity sharing deal where they get less for rent, ($4,000), as half owner, than they could get, ($4,500), as full owner without having to share in potential profits. They are still liable for the entire payment and they will still incur any potential entire loss. No matter what the agreement, how would they get the live-in half-owner to cough up their share of the loss? The live-in has nothing and the lender will go after both for the entire loss. And the loan would be recourse to the non-live-in partner.
My second property was an equity share, plain and simple. One of my roomates and I entered into a written agreement whereby I furninshed the entire down payment, we were each responsible for half the monthly, and we would split the profits/loss 75/25. I am not unfamiliar with equity sharing, and the deal as nir presented it is ludicrous, unless entered into with a parent, in which case it should be presented as such, because it does not make a case for normal equity sharing, or for the attractiveness of buying a home at this price.
A non-parent equity share partner is not going to provide half the monthly payment, which makes the deal as presented look attractive and a reason to buy a $1.1 mil home in this market, and presents a $1.1 mil price as reasonable and doable. It is neither. Nir presented this deal as a monthly cost of $4,000 total to the buyer. I knew something was up and therefore kept questioning until she admitted that the actual monthly was $8,000. I ask you without sarcasm, do you think someone would incur a negative cash flow of $48,000 yearly to split possible profits? Would you? Wouldn't you just buy the home yourself and rent it for $4,500 and have less neg and more profit? Even that deal is not attractive. I do not ask these questions to put you down. I just want others to look critically at the reasons given for buying a home. It doesn't matter how "creative" one is at purchasing a property one cannot afford, whether through equity sharing, 55% DTI, no doc, option ARM, dreaming big and making it happen, possibility thinking, 80/20, no down, foreclosure, whatever. The re market is trending down. Finding four homes that appreciated, when four hundred depreciated doesn't change the trend. And even if enough creative financing could change the trend, it would only prolong the inevitable.