akim997 said:Keeping up with the joneses generally doesnt refer to retirement savings... why? because you don't share that with your neighbors. "hey john, do you know my latest monte carlo analysis says im 80% to retirement"... hahaha... not... we all come from different walks of life. right now, we are saving more because we are saving for a house. that, obviously, would go down in the interim. my point was that with the absence of defined benefit pensions, people need to save more today than they used to, and most of us underscore that importance. just because the mortgage company will loan you x% of your income, doesnt mean you should take it. i know what my "magic number is" and for that, i need to put away as much as i can... i want to enjoy my kids in the future, so ill work hard now to hopefully achieve that one day.
Reference to keepin up is more with regards to material goods such as cars, clothes, toys and other designer accessories. Rather than take example from people like warren buffet or sam walton, many are obsessed with the lifestyles of the rich and famous a la hollywood celebrities. just look at those faker oc housewives who are all over the oc register for the wrong reasons - foreclosure, bankruptcy, etc.... now you nasty beeyatches, go sell your LV luggage for cents on the dollar on craigslist hahaha! if you have the money, then hey go spend it however you want, but i hate people who get obsessed with lifestyle and looking richer than you really are. I actually like the opposite, as my friends do to. One of my friends does really well, but drives a nissan cube, has no fancy clothes, lives in an old house, and lives a simple life. Another owns a small company doing $12MM a year in revenue. He wears basketball shorts and flip flops every day. No gucci here... i'm sure people around here look down on us and say "look at these scrubs"... but who cares? i only answer to my wife and my daughter (when she cries). we all have our vices (mine WAS cars, but now looks like real estate)... my wife? she doesnt care about LV, chanel, etc... she just wants a nice house. Not to show off, but its just something SHE wants. heck, no one visits us anyways since all of our friends live in LA. (All of our LA friends DESPISE orange county).
Akim, it's not actually fun to buy LV stuff when you can actually afford it. In all seriousness, you are or will be that "Millionaire Next Door".