IT guy (if you're still reading), I didn't buy a house until I was 36 years old. That's right, I rented until then. My first mortgage was $351K on a $390K house (i.e. 10% down) in the suburbs of Boston which back then was a "jumbo" loan. That was the year I made $200K -- a sudden rise after many years under $50K and a couple years of $80K-$120K. In all those years I never carried a credit card balance, and had only one car loan: 4 years @ $125 a month for a Japanese pickup that I named "The Trucklet."
Even though I made $200K, the $350K loan loan scared the hell out of me, and so did the size of the house. Two years later I moved to Seattle making $250K. Sold the house in Boston for the same $390 I paid (net of real estate commission) and bought a house for $258K. Took a 20% down mortgage for $206K. Then I started paying down principal. Two years later (1998) the loan principal was down to $190K or so.
In the same year (1998) I got fired in a reorganization, but they gave me a goodbye kiss of $175K after taxes. I found a job back in Boston for $350K. I kept the Seattle house because that's where I wanted to retire. Rented it out, and bought a house in the suburbs of Boston for $450K with a $300K mortgage. Paid extra principal and cut the loan principal by about $50K over five years. I also paid extra principal in Seattle and cut that balance down to about $160K.
In 2003 I became disabled and now I live on the disability insurance. Sold the Boston house for $610K. Paid the $250K mortgage + $30K real estate commission + $20K moving costs and walked away with $310K. Paid off the Seattle mortgage and put the rest of the money in the bank. I've owned my house free & clear for the past five years and it feels great. As for your frustration, I sympathize with it. Your $80K now is like my $45K back in the late 1980s. Doesn't go very far.
That said, when I was 26 years old, I made $21K, which in today's dollars is $43K. Just before I turned 27, I found a job for $60K in today's money. But the job was in L.A., and my rent was $1,200 in today's dollars; that big raise required me to move from Kansas City, where my rent had been $390 in today's money. Still, I felt pretty damn flush, so I got my first-ever credit card. It was an American Express card, which I had to pay every month in full. To this day I remember the first time I ever used a credit card. It was dinner at a restaurant in Santa Monica.
Sorry for this shaggy-dog story, but I guess what I'm trying to tell you is that you ought to take the long view. You will rarely regret what you didn't buy. If you avoid the Four Horsemen of the Financial Apocalypse -- trophy houses, trophy spouses, fast cars, and credit card debt -- you are ahead of the game. Don't do drugs, save your money, pay attention to your career, and with a bit of luck your day will come. When it comes to houses, the rule of thumb is to pay no more than about 160 times monthly rent for a place, and no more than 35% of monthly income for a mortgage.
House prices are WAY out of line now. They are at least double their rational value. Keep saving, working, and renting. Things will work for you. In the meantime, always live below your means and stay away from sharp objects.