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We've been renting in the South Bay, this is where I grew up. Long Beach is still totally possible; but if you think buying Irvine is a pain; you haven't seen anything yet, just ask MK. Places there are really hit and miss and if it is within our area, the house is usually small, or the lots tiny or in bad condition. They do have good bones, but renovating it to a move-in condition would be too much. Forget renting in LB; Torrance is more kid friendly. Irvine is of course more turn-key; but if the, white dad with his high school son is any clue, we are only open to a very specific neighborhood of Irvine. Foothill ranch is another topic, where the wife would have to be on wine to bring up.
Irvine is not my choice, but it is more the wive's and the kid. Elementary and middle school are on-par or better than any of the Irvine but I do have to relent that the high school isn't the best. The wife wants to go back to work; and there might be a position opening up with IUSD, she is a school counselor and has made the most inroads in Irvine. It take years of "interning" to be qualify for a true full time position. Our church is still in Irvine, and we do have a lot of friends here. I've been missing a lof men's activities because we are just so far away.
The way the wife and I look at it; I will always push more for LB and she for Irvine; and either city would be a win; & the we will be happy or make the most of either city. If we do end up in Irvine, you guys just have to promise us that we won't do the whole Irvine isolation & busyness deal. It is sooo easy to be by yourself and hide that I can get really weird very quickly. My co-worker who lives in Ontario tells me it takes him an hour from the time he parks his car to getting to the front door, because of all the activities going on on their street, I guess that is just more of what I want.
Trace, I forget where we went wrong, but I bet your hubby and I have a lot in common, and our sons might even be friends. I'm not over spiritualizing the decision but loving people in LB is easy; it takes a lot more work to think of something to say to an Asian immigrant or to put on (or project) the suit of pretentiousness, education and status (I will explain more about this). I can do it, but I'm not entirely myself, and it does expend more energy.
I guess I perfer to be with these people...
than, these...
oh, BTW... Newsong has a heart for Santa Ana, and is looking to buy the Santora building...
http://www.ocregister.com/articles/community-351099-santa-santora.html
Irvine is not my choice, but it is more the wive's and the kid. Elementary and middle school are on-par or better than any of the Irvine but I do have to relent that the high school isn't the best. The wife wants to go back to work; and there might be a position opening up with IUSD, she is a school counselor and has made the most inroads in Irvine. It take years of "interning" to be qualify for a true full time position. Our church is still in Irvine, and we do have a lot of friends here. I've been missing a lof men's activities because we are just so far away.
The way the wife and I look at it; I will always push more for LB and she for Irvine; and either city would be a win; & the we will be happy or make the most of either city. If we do end up in Irvine, you guys just have to promise us that we won't do the whole Irvine isolation & busyness deal. It is sooo easy to be by yourself and hide that I can get really weird very quickly. My co-worker who lives in Ontario tells me it takes him an hour from the time he parks his car to getting to the front door, because of all the activities going on on their street, I guess that is just more of what I want.
Trace, I forget where we went wrong, but I bet your hubby and I have a lot in common, and our sons might even be friends. I'm not over spiritualizing the decision but loving people in LB is easy; it takes a lot more work to think of something to say to an Asian immigrant or to put on (or project) the suit of pretentiousness, education and status (I will explain more about this). I can do it, but I'm not entirely myself, and it does expend more energy.
I guess I perfer to be with these people...
than, these...
oh, BTW... Newsong has a heart for Santa Ana, and is looking to buy the Santora building...
http://www.ocregister.com/articles/community-351099-santa-santora.html