cklein I was in your situation last year, well without the 50K per month good lawd son (yes jealous). I had just broken up with a very long time girlfriend so I wasn't sure whether to keep renting, move to a new geographic location, or buy something. Even though it was a tough breakup, the good news was that I was in full control of what I wanted to do now so the decisions were 100% mine, and so I enjoyed the freedom.
I looked at the numbers and contacted USC (he has the skills), and told him I was at a fork in the road, and I wanted to see what was out there and what my money could buy. I wasn't surprised that my money went much further than it did in 2006, when I had first looked, but was surprised in HOW much further it went, so it opened up alot of options for me I didn't have before. I decided it was the right time to buy and it just felt right.
1) So first question, does it FEEL right to you, or you just think you are doing it to please other people?
2) My other question is, you say you are getting social pressure, where is that coming from? Your parents? Friends? Significant other? From yourself?
Best rule in life that sounds like a cliche but which rings true is F whatever everybody else thinks and do what makes YOU happy. I got people telling me to buy a house for years, because prices couldn't get any better, but I knew what time it was thanks to forums like this.
I got paid the biggest compliment from one of the same people that used to encourage me to buy, when one of them said, "I know now that icey bought that the bottom must be in."
It's like the girl who turns 30 and now her entire family is on her case to get married, so she finds some guy she thinks is "just okay," and latches on, and ends up not being happy because she made a decision to please other people. In fact I know of another case like that right now. Not offense to any females here I just see the girls always being pressured, for some reason guys never get that same pressure and we get a free pass like it's cute or something.
Or you could buy MLPL, BDCL, and MORL and collect fat dividends son. BROTHER GETS PAID LOL
"F IT WE'LL DO IT LIVE!"