Asumis said:Thanks everyone for the input - definitely a lot to consider!
For what it's worth, I've been checking Google Maps every day for a few weeks now to see what the commute would be like when leaving Irvine/LF at 5:45AM and going back from PV at 2:00PM and it has consistently been around 1 hour and 5-25 minutes. I'm sure that traffic now is lighter than it used to be, but I feel like it's at least back to 75-80% of what it used to be. 3-4 hours of total commute is still pretty bad but maybe I'm just used to traffic in CA and don't mind it as much lol. It's definitely a tradeoff everyone has to consider in terms of what works best/makes sense; now if it were a 5+ hour commute, then that would be unbearable. I'd be surprised if traffic right now is only half of what it was pre-COVID!
We'll expand our search to the LA area and see if anything in the suggested areas look attractive just in case too.
Another option is you can commute with Amtrak or Metro. You don't have to worry about traffics then. Amtrak has wifi also if I remember correctly. Not sure if train will get you right by where you would commute to, but something to think about as an option.