So, Iho, when women flirt w/ you, you don't like it if Mrs. Iho reacts even slightly? Meanwhile, how do you take it when the opposite occurs?
I know men don't seem to appreciate crazy-rampage jealousy but sometimes I think they also like it a little bit. For instance, one time Mr. SoCal helped set up a new lady's computer at work and showed her how to use some programs. She was sooo thankful that she bought him a potted plant with a handwritten notecard expressing her utmost thanks for him. He brought it home, with glee seeping out of his face... but only because he seemed to know what I would think. He went to another room for a few minutes and when he got back, I asked (*calmly*): "So. Who is she and what does she look like?" He answered. Then, he asked: "Where's the plant?" Me: "In the trash." He busted out laughing. He still laughs about it today if it comes up. I think he likes that I'm possessive. I guess I thought most men do. I don't mean tire-slashing jealous but ya know -- caring.