Paris,
I bet you grew up from a middle class family. Am I correct?
I do agree with your post. If you are a college student paying your own way through college, I am sure he will attend every class trying to learn something that he can apply to the real world. When things are handed to you, you feel entitled and you take things for granted. You can skip classes whenever you feel like it, partying all night, wasting your parents' money.
When you have skin the game, you take your studies seriously.
I think the job market is also going to change quite a bit over the next 15-20 years. Perhaps a college education will not be as valuable as it used to be in the past. I can also see a potential shift from a W2 job market to independent contractors.
Paris said:
$300k per kid for college??! Whatever happened to - if you want a college education take out some loans and after graduation You better find a job real quick to pay down those loans? That's what I had to do. My parents couldn't afford to pay for my 10 year college plan. I feel that these days children are handed everything so they come out entitled and have no sense of responsibility. If there are some bills to pay it'll be a fire under them to get cracking. And it's all about the quality of their education. Good luck of I pay for their art degree so they can teach for $40k/ year. I'll pay for living expenses but even if I can pay their college in cash I won't. They should pave their own way and if they are responsible and I see that they have done well with some sensible plan after graduation - at that point I'll maybe pay 50% of that student loan.