irvinehomeowner said:
the whole time I was so worried we were going to break something in the house for the new owner.
You're a considerate person. I wish I had a seller like you. I was on the buy-side in a rent-back. The seller was going to be moving into a new construction without a firm move-in date and our agent at the time was pushing us into a 30-day escrow because she said the longer the escrow, the less chance of it closing. (Obviously, it's in her best interest that it does close, regardless of the effect to me but I believed her at the time that it was best for us.) The rent-back period was for about 2 months. There were lots of issues from the start. They didn't feel they should have to give us a deposit as you typically would if you were renting, because as long as they were there, they felt it was "their" house or so they said. They also didn't want to pay more per month than they had already been doing so on their mortgage, which was much less than my new monthly expenses on the place. To keep the deal together, I agreed no deposit and keep their monthly costs the same. Then came move-out time, and they wouldn't go because their house was not ready. Each week, they would say they would move out and did not. They were also bitter because home prices had gone up just since we closed, so they feel they got a raw deal. They broke stuff as they were moving out and did not fix it. They left a mess that I had to clean. Then they realized they needed us to continue their contract on the home-alarm system (which I didn't want and was never part of the deal) because it would cost them to break the contract. It would have been cheaper for them to just pay the time left even if they moved out rather than breaking the contract but they decided to rip it off the wall and leave a mess. Being an accidental landlord was not fun. I wouldn't want to do it again. I'm so hesitant now that I'd even be slightly uncomfortable with the customary COE + 3 days courtesy move-out time. I would avoid a rent-back next time if I could.
Edited to add: Their new construction never was ready in time. They ended up having to change course and go stay with family temporarily. If I ever bought from someone with wishy-washy move-out plans again, I'd definitely make sure there is some back-up plan in place if possible. My Realtor's solution to all this was advising us to go camp out in the patio of the house we bought and make lots of noise so they would be in a hurry to leave. :