socal78
Well-known member
CZ, not sure what you mean it doesn't suit the pocket book. On the surface, it sounds like it's too expensive. However, due to the big picture, it sounds like you want more house and can afford more house but and if it were not for limited inventory / current market conditions, you would buy said house.
All of you guys, me included. We have to realize our kids will age out of the house by the time we're ready for our ultimate dream homes. ;-) It's like the old saying: How much money is enough? Just a little bit more. For some, the same goes for a home. People are never completely happy - always looking for a little more, a little more. When is enough enough?
My proposal is simple: let's be happy with what we have. Our kids will not care about the size of our garage, the layout, or who the builder was. Think back to your own childhood and if you cared about any of those things. Our happy memories are made of a lot more than that. There are things I wish I could change about the house I bought but I didn't have much choice with such limited selection and not wanting to become house-poor. I have no plans to move up even if there money burning a hole in my pocket. Buy a rental, sure, but I will make this my happy little home at least until I need to downsize for retirement. It doesn't have to be big to be cute or impressive. It has features I enjoy and that's good enough. More than that, I hate moving. Any extra money that comes my way will be better spent in other areas. It may not be the nicest home of all my friends, but it certainly could be worse.
CZ, I don't care what size your house is. You will be my friend whether you're in a studio apartment or an estate. I prefer people who are financially wise over a squander-er and especially a poser. When I accept applications for new friends, I never look at their kid's test scores, what kind of car they drive, or their area code. I read some passing comment on here about 949 vs. 714. UNREAL!
All of you guys, me included. We have to realize our kids will age out of the house by the time we're ready for our ultimate dream homes. ;-) It's like the old saying: How much money is enough? Just a little bit more. For some, the same goes for a home. People are never completely happy - always looking for a little more, a little more. When is enough enough?
My proposal is simple: let's be happy with what we have. Our kids will not care about the size of our garage, the layout, or who the builder was. Think back to your own childhood and if you cared about any of those things. Our happy memories are made of a lot more than that. There are things I wish I could change about the house I bought but I didn't have much choice with such limited selection and not wanting to become house-poor. I have no plans to move up even if there money burning a hole in my pocket. Buy a rental, sure, but I will make this my happy little home at least until I need to downsize for retirement. It doesn't have to be big to be cute or impressive. It has features I enjoy and that's good enough. More than that, I hate moving. Any extra money that comes my way will be better spent in other areas. It may not be the nicest home of all my friends, but it certainly could be worse.
CZ, I don't care what size your house is. You will be my friend whether you're in a studio apartment or an estate. I prefer people who are financially wise over a squander-er and especially a poser. When I accept applications for new friends, I never look at their kid's test scores, what kind of car they drive, or their area code. I read some passing comment on here about 949 vs. 714. UNREAL!