[quote author="freedomCM" date=1209622119][quote author="stepping_up" date=1209613118]
"but so long as you are *NOT* relying on the CM house for your retirement money (15-25% in other funds, wow), you will be fine"
We live more like a couple who has half our income. This is something that I'm really good with, which is why I'm so paranoid about risk. I've been lowerish salary for my industry with comm and bonus for years. I always budget to live strictly on the salary, comms and bonus are savings/investment. When hubby gets his raise later this year, he'll increase his contribution %.
You've been looking at the homes in the area, so you know the small closets. I can actually fit my clothes in one of those closets. We just don't spend money on stuff we don't need. The two car garage will house our two modest cars, not a bunch of excess crap that ate up money. I drove my car for 9 years after it was paid for before I bought another one. We don't even have cable because we don't watch TV, which has a side benefit of not being subjected to ads that convince you to buy more stuff
I'm kind of digressing here, but I think people can save more than they do. We never would have ended up with this crazy cycle if people just stuck to buying what they could afford with a real down payment and a 30 year fixed mortgage.
We've gotten an amazing mortgage. I think that B of A's risk assessment weights your assets and savings heavily. We qualified for about $100K more purchase price in <strong>today's</strong> lending environment, but we weren't comfortable taking on that much. We had already determined the purchase price/mortgage and terms that we would be comfortable with and stuck with it.
-Enjoy your new house-
Thank you! I had to meet the insurance inspector over there this afternoon. Of course, I was feeling sick about whether I was doing the right thing. After being back in the house and visualizing it all, I'm all jazzed again. I came back via 19th to drop off my last rent check to my landlord who lives in a gorgeous home on the east side and I was rubbernecking the various white picket fence styles. That's one of my projects for the house. I'll keep my retirement contribution at 25%, but I'm going to start spending some of my comms. on projects. It's motivated me to sell more