[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934][quote author="C Delroy Spuckler" date=1242767273][quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242737397][quote author="tmare" date=1242737020] I wish you nothing but good luck, it sounds like you deserve to enjoy a house that fits for you and your wife.</blockquote>
Only if they can afford to pay for it. They sound over-leveraged as it is. When did I turn into Suze Orman? Must be Troopers fault.</blockquote>
What makes you believe I am over leveraged?
Delroy</blockquote>
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934]I suggest you not be passive agressive with me if you want to continue on this forum, or I will stop being nice. You likely won't like that.</blockquote>
Slow down there Mr. Internet Toughguy... take a deep breath here before you threaten me with an IrvingHouseBlog beatdown. I realize this might be your schoolyard and you might be their bully, but just ask for my damned lunch money... no need to shake a fist at me.
I was asking a legitimate question in this thread, and you provided speculation to my situation (most likely based on your unhappiness with your own life, and need to put others down). Your speculation was wrong, and I was just trying to call you on it, because it was not backed up by any facts, and might cause others to answer incorrectly. While I know you might enjoy laughing at others who made bad financial decisions, I hate to say I am not one you will probably find much joy laughing at.
Let's please take a step back here and be civil. No need for anyone to "stop being nice".
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934]Your own words "Mr. short on funds"</blockquote>
Correct, I am short on funds. As I mentioned in my previous post, it is a short term thing caused by my wife and my desire to do something nice for our children. To remodel a house you need real money, not equity or an account with money in it. I don't have money sitting in cash tagged for this. Most of the money we had in cash we have already applied to downpay our children's college loans. There is a difference between being "short on funds" and "leveraged". Had you read my previous post and absorbed it, you would have realized the reason I am short on funds because we are taking on (what is for us) a large short term loan obligation to thank our kids.
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934] and "borrowed to pay my kids student loan off"</blockquote>
I did not say I borrowed to pay off my kids loans. Here's the deal, we told our kids growing up we would pay their way through B.S. in any instate public school. We saved (cash) for that so that we would not need to take a student loan out. My oldest son went to UCLA (engineer, not Asian) got his B.S. and continued on to get his masters. Our original agreement was he would pay for that, he had zero debt after his B.S., the loan was for his masters. Likewise, my daughter went into a specialty where it made more sense for her to go to a private school (USC). The loan was to cover the difference in tuition. Both our kids graduated with good grades, and so we felt as a token of appreciation we would surprise them by agreeing to take over their student loans. We know our kids are out on their own now, and so our cost of living will drop. We felt we can cover these loans in roughly 3 years, but that it would require some belt tightening for us short term, and that my wife would go back to work until we pay the loans off.
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934]"fixing to retire" </blockquote>
Why does "fixing to retire" mean "leveraged"? Fixing to retire means my kids moved out, I've got my savings in check, and we're considering what our next step in life will be. Its not I'm gonna retire tomorrow, its "hey, my priorities in life are changing, and The Mrs. and I are probably ready to pursue other goals in life".
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934]"holder of a net loser portfolio of stocks and a house". </blockquote>
I would find it hard to believe anyone who has money in the stock market right now has not seen depreciation in their assets. Again, this does not mean I am leveraged. As I said, my belief is the stock market has been underperforming and over the course of our loan, will probably go up. Rather than sell stocks at a depressed price, to pay for either my kid's loan or my house, one option we are exploring is taking a loan out since interest rates are at a very favorable rate. As I said in my previous post, one thought is to dollar cost average out of my stock portfolio to pay off any loan, rather than selling it all right now when I believe things are artificially low. Additionally, one has to consider the tax consequences when selling stock, so stock is not like this big giant piggy bank I should tap into arbitrarily.
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934]Plus, you're being evasive.</blockquote>
In what way am I being evasive? When there was some comments about my "tight on cash" comment, I provided some followup on that... comments which you chose to ignore or misinterpretted. I followed that up with this post which includes more information onto my situation.
The reason I am asking on this thread... debt is something I'm not overly familiar with. 25 years back when I bought my house, I guess I was naive and put 20% down and did a 30 year fixed. If you look at interest rates, obviously this was a bad time to get a loan, and a few years later I refinanced into a 30 year fixed with a larger downpayment. I've lived in the same house for roughly 25 years. I have no car loans. My home loan is a token payment, and I have a good amount of equity. My house is modest by today's standards. My problem is, for the next few years I will be paying down my kids' loans so most of our salaries will be going there. So we'd like to find some money for a short term loan to allow us to remodel and enjoy our new life... additionally we realize since our home is 25 years old, selling it in the future in its current state will probably be difficult... linoleum just isn't in today, and we have resisted the urge to travertine our entire house like everyone else did in the past 10 years.
[quote author="no_vaseline" date=1242768934]What is wrong with your house? Are you talking about a $5,000 paint and carpet and a couple of doors deal, or are you talking about $100K in custom kitchens.</blockquote>
As I said, my kids moved out. Our home for the past 20 years was focused around our kids. We no longer need a house focused around 2 kids. Our lifestyle is changing as well. The house is also 25 years old. Yes, one thing we are thinking of doing is upgrading the kitchen... my wife is into cooking, and now that we have the time, she'd like something where she can do this more often and more comfortably. We are also looking at reflooring. Now that we don't have kids running in and out of the house, we are thinking of replacing our outdated brick floors with some carpet.
Anyways, that's my situation... like I said, I'm not too familiar with debt and what options are available. Since I have a fair amount of home equity (and that would also allow for a tax writeoff) that was potentially one option. I assume there are other people on here who might be in a similar situation and gone through some thinking.
There, is that better?
Delroy