Paris said:
nyc to oc said:
It depends on your view--what is the purpose of high school? Is it to get into a competitive college, or is it to receive a strong educational foundation that will prepare your kid for success in the future regardless of what college they go to? If you send your kid to an "easy" school, they may be a big fish in a small pond, rank at the top of their class, get into a competitive college and find themselves woefully unprepared to deal with the rigor of the work at that top university. Or, they may go to that Dangerous Minds school, feel pressure to fit in by slacking off, fall in with the wrong crowd, or have a miserable 4 years being bullied for being one of the studious ones.
THIS. So true.
I went to a good academically ranked high school aka majority of students were Asian. I did well in high school but no where near the top of the class. I was in the AP track but obviously my competition was tough. I never applied to an IVY but applied to Stanford and got rejected. Got into every UC though and ended up at UCLA. I was premed and I was now competing with a couple thousand premed students fighting to the death to get into medical school. Our classes were graded on a curve so it was a constant competition and I was up against students like myself and certainly those more intelligent.
During this moment in my life I was so glad that I went to that competitive high school, the one where I was challenged, and where I learned from some of the best students on study strategies and learned to not falter under the intense pressure of competition. I am pretty confident to say that had I attended a subpar high school I would not be a physician today. I wouldn't be as prepared to get the grades I needed to in college to get into medical school.
Now nobody cares where I went to undergrad. Everyone cares where I went to medical school and that I trained at one of the best medical centers in the nation. And truly that it what matters in my career in the long run.
So I want my kids to be among the best, learn from these students, be challenged by these students. That skill set is what will matter in the long run and lead to a more successful life path. And I work with colleagues that went to IVY leagues and we work at the same place, do the same thing, make the same $$. I just had less school debt to pay back with my state funded college education
I think the real answer is, "it depends". Obviously, if you are going into a field like medicine, the undergrad really doesn't matter. MCATS and board scores level the playing field eventually.
However, I would argue undergrad is very important for other fields, where networking and being at the right place at the right time are huge factors in career success. Much more important that the contacts you made at an Irvine HS.
I have friends who went to Stanford and can directly attribute many of their jobs and success based on having friends/dormmates who start their own companies, or know some people who did.
I also have friends who went to stanford and took a job at google or yahoo(back in the late 90s) who only took the job because they couldn't get an ibanking job and that was their backup. An example of being at the right place at the right time.
The point is, the networking effect is very real at these prestigious universities.