[quote author="irvine_home_owner" date=1246024360][quote author="traceimage" date=1246023053]Graphrix, I'm not going to dissect your posts and argue with you, but I lived in Berkeley (right near the Oakland border) for 14 years. I actually don't agree with you at all about the Oakland schools. I would not send my child to an Oakland public school. You don't have to agree, but please don't assume I am saying this out of ignorance. I worked in Berkeley and Oakland schools for 3 years.
I've read a lot of your posts, and you often seem to be shocked at everyone's staggering ignorance, and how ignorance is bliss. I think that might just be your way of attacking people that don't agree with you?
I think I've been respectful to the people here I don't agree with...yet you seem to want to tear apart my statements and go on the offensive. And I just noticed you're a moderator? Is that kind of behavior encouraged on these forums? Eek. I don't think this is my kind of online community. Oh well.
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Since you've read a lot of his posts... you should know by now that graph is Mr. Grouchy Pants. He doesn't mean any harm... he just doesn't filter online.
And don't get hung up on the "moderator" title... I learned early on that all that really means is that they were one of the OG members or they specialize in a certain area of this forum. The only people who actually moderate are zovall and IR. If not for PeterUK... I may have not stuck around but I'm glad I did... you just need to get used to it.
I think that's the problem though here (as with most of the Internet)... the medium isn't really good for tone so it's hard to tell if "ignorant" is truly an insult or just word being used to catch someone's attention. I doubt graph actually thinks your ignorant... and if so... well.... your response just pwned him a bit*.
*IMO
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But if everyone became so cautious about what they wrote, there won't be anything interesting left to say sometimes.. it will end up being real world (?) As long as people are civil, what's wrong in expressing their views ..</blockquote>
And I don't think anyone here is telling anyone to not express their views... but you are right about the civility. When people seem to get insulted or irritated by others' posts, they should maybe give a little slack as opinions shouldn't really be subject to so much criticism (although in the case of some posters... it's obvious they are just being trolls... which I remember I was accused of numerous times when I first joined).
<strong>roundcorners is such an instigator... wasn't the Behind the Orange Curtain thread his poll too? Drama queen!!! </strong></blockquote>
Yes, please stop the drama... I have no discipline and need to get some sleep! ;-) These 1 day, 3 page threads keep me up all night!