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Combine this with numerous cost saving tactics and you can be very well of with surprisingly very little. Oh and worrying about people looking at you in a disgusting way isn't an option...and it wasn't. When survival is the game, one must get creative and savvy.
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I could suggest "The Complete Tightwad Gazette" by Amy Dacyczyn:
<img src="http://center4debtmanagement.com/RecommendedReading/Images/Tightward.jpg" alt="" />
There are also many frugal living resources on the web:
<a href="http://frugalliving.about.com/">http://frugalliving.about.com/</a>
I think the main issue with some people in OC is the "working poor" syndrome. They're unable (or unwilling) to reduce their living expenses and expectations. For those in poverty, there are many government and private charities catering to them, but they don't always have access or knowledge to obtain help. Also, it's not easy to run charities due to legal/liability issues.
I did some volunteer work for "Project Angle Food" recently, cooking in their kitchen to prep ~1,400 meals daily, delivered to the needy. To be a volunteer you had to sign legal docs and waver forms. To actually qualify for assistance, you have to fulfill a long list of requirements, including a qualifying health condition, consent form signed by your doctor, proof of residence, proof of income, client agreement, consent agreement, etc. Click on "English" link in follow web page to see the actual forms:
<a href="http://www.angelfood.org/site/pp.asp?c=etIQK6OYG&b=437941">http://www.angelfood.org/site/pp.asp?c=etIQK6OYG&b=437941</a>
IMO their work is very admirable, worthy of your time and donations. But using Project Angel Food as an example, you can see how difficult it is for someone who is poor and suffering from a serious illness would 1) learn about their existence, 2) qualify for their aid, and 3) swallow their pride to apply for food charity.