Gosh, I just put twenty minutes into a soul searching, heart felt post and I lost it. And I don't have the heart or energy to try to re-write it now.<p>
Changed my mind. My wife and kids aren't home yet, so here goes.<p>
You and I have been through this cycle before. We know what is happening, and what will continue to happen.<p>
Just sitting and renting and waiting is not easy for me. It is actually quite difficult. There is no support out there for going against the herd. The So Cal world of friends, family, and aquaintances screams buy, own your own home, you aren't whole without owning your own home. It is so strong it can make you doubt yourself and what you know is best. I know that if we wait, we will get more home for less money, and we will have less mortgage stress, and ... <p>
And I guess I know that no one is going to sell me a home right now for what I know I will be able to get it for later. So, I guess I just don't like the original question. It isn't personal against you. But there is something about the question which is bugging me.<p>
It sounds unreasonable, but no, I wouldn't buy right now. Because, if a seller were willing to take my offer, I still know that in a few years, I could get the same home for less. Why would I pay a million for something today, that I know I can get for $800,000 in a few years. Shouldn't I be content with what I have now if it is the best interest of my family?<p>
I know you don't need this, but if you think it best for your family to buy a home now, I support you. But if you are thinking of buying a home because of those urgency feelings and you know that you could do better for your family by waiting, I want to support you in waiting.<p>
Is it just renting you don't like, or is it the actual place your are renting? I don't find renting optimal, but it has it's good points too.