I agree with CalGal that karma will get them. I shared this story about one of my co-workers in a past thread but will share again. My co-worker decided to jump into the RE ponzi scheme in 2006 and bought a small junk of a house for $500k+ in San Diego. She had never owned a house by herself and was getting in way over her head. Heck, she took a 1 year ARM with a teaser rate and 0% down. All of us including our manager told her this was a terrible idea and will only cause her stress down the road. Well, after 6 months of living there, she realized her quality of life sucked as every dollar was going to the house and this is before a rate reset. Unfortunately, San Diego prices already started coming down so she just walked away from the house and moved back into the same apt complex that she had lived in for the 10 years prior to the purchase.
No one forced her to buy and everyone explained to her how dumb the decision was. Yet she still went in head strong and then walked away when it didn't turn out to be a good idea leaving the bank with the junk house. Now instead of a house, imagine it was a project she took on and walked away cause it got too hard. Do you think our team or our manager has faith in her ability to complete what she says?
Officially, her personal life shouldn't affect her ability to grow at her career but unofficially it does. People are less likely to trust her ability on large demanding projects which might not end up going the way we planned. To me, thats karma.
No one forced her to buy and everyone explained to her how dumb the decision was. Yet she still went in head strong and then walked away when it didn't turn out to be a good idea leaving the bank with the junk house. Now instead of a house, imagine it was a project she took on and walked away cause it got too hard. Do you think our team or our manager has faith in her ability to complete what she says?
Officially, her personal life shouldn't affect her ability to grow at her career but unofficially it does. People are less likely to trust her ability on large demanding projects which might not end up going the way we planned. To me, thats karma.