SoCal78_IHB
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[quote author="IrvineRealtor" date=1221555256][quote author="SoCal78" date=1221553680]I'm going to be blunt. In my opinion, you're both wrong. The deal should be to close on the 26th with a 3-day grace period for you to move out. Every time I have closed escrow on a home as both a buyer and seller, I have given and received that customary grace period.</blockquote>
@socal - The customary grace period not always customary. It raises several questions about insurance, responsibility, and liability if/when something should go wrong. For example, what would you do as an owner when the tenant throws a going away party, and doesn't clean up afterwards, or worse, breaks something?
On the West Side, and down in SD County, it is typical to close and deliver on the same day.
@trojanman - In your shoes, I'd close as early as possible and be very accommodating, getting your stuff out quickly. Anything can happen with an open escrow.
Also, don't ever tell your closing price to another agent until it is closed, nor the expected closing date, as they may cut you off at the knees by slashing their price enough to make the buyer walk from their earnest money deposit. More importantly for you, at this point, since the contingencies have not been removed and the property is still in "backup" status, there would be nearly no cost to the buyer to walk. When asked, the correct answer is, "That information will be public as soon as it is recorded. Would you like me to call you at when escrow closes?"
Congrats again. You still owe me lunch. And let me know when to come pick up my signs and lockbox. </blockquote>
I actually do agree with you on those principles, IR2. I should have reminded myself that when I bought and gave my sellers the grace period it was when the market was jumping so anything extra I could do to sweeten the deal was necessary at the time, however that has changed as we all know. So I would like to apologize for my poor advice to the previous posters. However I did just sell my house in May and the grace period was written into our contract. I didn't even ask for it - my agent asked on our behalf and got it with no questions asked - from each of our multiple offers. (My realtor said this courtesy has always been a part of each transaction she's done... hmmm... is this some sign of negligence on her part I wonder?) The hard part is anything can happen during escrow and it's not a sure thing, as you know, until it actually records so you don't want to move too early. I actually have a friend who moved a week before his closing was scheduled. Three days before escrow was to close it fell through and he had to go through the time and trouble of moving everything back!! Yikes. If I was trojan I'd probably still ask and see if it's not too late to write it in. The worst they can say is "no" and if they say yes it gives him a chance to get squared away. Although if I was a buyer today I'd probably decline. Ugh. Choices.
Come to think of it -- isn't a walk-through somewhat pointless? They are done before the seller moves out so what if something goes wrong when they are moving... a hole is made in the wall, something spills, etc. During the walk-through you can only confirm that certain repairs have been made, etc, but you don't get to see the house in its final state which is what it should look like when you take possession - kwim??
@socal - The customary grace period not always customary. It raises several questions about insurance, responsibility, and liability if/when something should go wrong. For example, what would you do as an owner when the tenant throws a going away party, and doesn't clean up afterwards, or worse, breaks something?
On the West Side, and down in SD County, it is typical to close and deliver on the same day.
@trojanman - In your shoes, I'd close as early as possible and be very accommodating, getting your stuff out quickly. Anything can happen with an open escrow.
Also, don't ever tell your closing price to another agent until it is closed, nor the expected closing date, as they may cut you off at the knees by slashing their price enough to make the buyer walk from their earnest money deposit. More importantly for you, at this point, since the contingencies have not been removed and the property is still in "backup" status, there would be nearly no cost to the buyer to walk. When asked, the correct answer is, "That information will be public as soon as it is recorded. Would you like me to call you at when escrow closes?"
Congrats again. You still owe me lunch. And let me know when to come pick up my signs and lockbox. </blockquote>
I actually do agree with you on those principles, IR2. I should have reminded myself that when I bought and gave my sellers the grace period it was when the market was jumping so anything extra I could do to sweeten the deal was necessary at the time, however that has changed as we all know. So I would like to apologize for my poor advice to the previous posters. However I did just sell my house in May and the grace period was written into our contract. I didn't even ask for it - my agent asked on our behalf and got it with no questions asked - from each of our multiple offers. (My realtor said this courtesy has always been a part of each transaction she's done... hmmm... is this some sign of negligence on her part I wonder?) The hard part is anything can happen during escrow and it's not a sure thing, as you know, until it actually records so you don't want to move too early. I actually have a friend who moved a week before his closing was scheduled. Three days before escrow was to close it fell through and he had to go through the time and trouble of moving everything back!! Yikes. If I was trojan I'd probably still ask and see if it's not too late to write it in. The worst they can say is "no" and if they say yes it gives him a chance to get squared away. Although if I was a buyer today I'd probably decline. Ugh. Choices.
Come to think of it -- isn't a walk-through somewhat pointless? They are done before the seller moves out so what if something goes wrong when they are moving... a hole is made in the wall, something spills, etc. During the walk-through you can only confirm that certain repairs have been made, etc, but you don't get to see the house in its final state which is what it should look like when you take possession - kwim??