[quote author="homeowner" date=1223360952][quote author="irvine_home_owner" date=1223353937]Did you find out if this loan adjustment is part of the FHA program? Any other catches other than the forced escrow... like PMI?
$5000 a month for a home that is $900k is the norm... it's when you have been used to paying only $3000 a month that makes it seem abnormal.</blockquote>
Yes, forced escrow. Im not sure if it is part of the FHA program. And I dont have PMI on my mortgage.
And to those who say I should have bought a home for $500,000... I would have loved to! But there were no homes at that time for that price that were suited for us. After all, we sold our 1700 sq ft home for $700,000. The least expensive home I found was $850k at that time that suited my family. So, living here, I am forced to overpay (above my means I believe, but I can afford it) for a home that would cost $250-$300k in other parts of the country. I did not know that prices would be dropping THIS much. So, I dont believe buyers like me are driving prices up, I think we are preventing a more drastic loss.</blockquote>
"The least expensive home I found was $850k at that time that suited my family. So, living here, I am forced to overpay (above my means I believe, but I can afford it)"
I would like to examine this series of statements. First, there is a bit of a sense of entitlement to believe that it takes an $850,000 home to suit your family. Second, nobody was forced to pay or overpay. You could have chosen not to overpay, or you could have chosen to rent. Third, you over spent your means, and it seems from your other statements that you can't really afford the house. Just so you understand why some of the commenters are a bit annoyed, based on the statements here, it looks as if you chose to pander to your family's sense of entitlement and bought a house you cannot afford, and in doing so, you and others like you drove up prices to where nobody can afford them (which is also why prices are dropping so much now.)