Ready2Downsize said:The loft is upstairs. I helped the kids with homework when I was getting dinner ready and my kitchen was not upstairs.
I DID have a LARGE bonus room with two built in desks with task lighting and lots of room for papers, books, art work, etc. The kids NEVER used them. They either did their homework on their own in their rooms or nook table if they needed help.
Next house I had two built in desks with task lighting downstairs in the office and again the kids did not use it. We also had two built in desks outside the bonus room with task lighting, drawers, etc and they didn't use those either! Hubby did use one (he would have used downstairs office but he was on the phone ALL the time and I work best with the TV on in the background. Then we ALSO had a large u shaped desk in the bonus room which no one used! Eventually the kids put a large screen tv on it and the room got some use as a place to watch movies.
Where did they do homework? Same place as they did since they were little............. nook table, friend's house or their rooms if they needed no help. Interestingly, one kid had a room large enough for u shaped built in desk and drawers. She did her homework on the bed and used the desk to throw her clothes on before they went to the wash.
We had a total of 7 desks (one in the kitchen too) and the two that were used were one in the office by me and one near the bonus room for the hubby. Bonus room was unnecessary. We probably got more use out of the dining room before the kids started watching movies in the bonus room and we only used the dining room for Thanksgiving and an occasional birthday.
I can say that resale value will be higher for an extra bedroom than a loft instead of bedroom.
Just look at any new build in Irvine >3000sf, they all have lofts so I'm pretty sure the demand for a loft is there.
This is a pretty pointless argument b/c it really is personal preference. Despite how detailed you want to outline your use of space, you are just one data point. As am I.