Starting in July, our rent is going up to $3700. That's pretty close to $4000. We are a family of 4 with teemagers in a 3bd condo.
Our gross salary is well under $190k. Wanna know how we can afford to pay this much in rent but not have money for a down payment? 22 years in the military. They give us a non-taxable housing allowance every month. That's how. When you take that away, we just barely now make over $100k per year. We are a single income family due to many factors. We need to save for retirement, higher education for our kids, and basically pay for the rest of just regular life. It's expensive. Until very recently, we never had anything left over at the end of the month. We live a VERY modest lifestyle. My car is 14 years old. I shop for clothes at Target and Costco. We don't take fancy vacations. Our house is full of Ikea furniture. For the majority of our married life, our rent was over 50% of our take home pay.
We live in Irvine for the schools and specifically, for the special education program. We refuse to send our autistic kids to any other district in OC. It's not an option. So, we pay the Irvine premium for that.
We are just now barely at the point where we have saved a 6 month emergency fund. Next up is the house down payment fund. We planned to use a VA loan, but after hearing how hard that is here, we have given up and decided that we will need 20% down. We will have our kids living with us as adults and will NOT be able to tolerate a home smaller than we are in now, 1900 sq ft. From what I can see, a house the size we will need long term will cost us at least $1M, thus the need for a $200K down payment.
If we are lucky, we will be able to buy a house before we turn 50.
Our gross salary is well under $190k. Wanna know how we can afford to pay this much in rent but not have money for a down payment? 22 years in the military. They give us a non-taxable housing allowance every month. That's how. When you take that away, we just barely now make over $100k per year. We are a single income family due to many factors. We need to save for retirement, higher education for our kids, and basically pay for the rest of just regular life. It's expensive. Until very recently, we never had anything left over at the end of the month. We live a VERY modest lifestyle. My car is 14 years old. I shop for clothes at Target and Costco. We don't take fancy vacations. Our house is full of Ikea furniture. For the majority of our married life, our rent was over 50% of our take home pay.
We live in Irvine for the schools and specifically, for the special education program. We refuse to send our autistic kids to any other district in OC. It's not an option. So, we pay the Irvine premium for that.
We are just now barely at the point where we have saved a 6 month emergency fund. Next up is the house down payment fund. We planned to use a VA loan, but after hearing how hard that is here, we have given up and decided that we will need 20% down. We will have our kids living with us as adults and will NOT be able to tolerate a home smaller than we are in now, 1900 sq ft. From what I can see, a house the size we will need long term will cost us at least $1M, thus the need for a $200K down payment.
If we are lucky, we will be able to buy a house before we turn 50.