[quote author="irvine123" date=1245279139]I compeletly understand the feeling of feeling screwed by your agent on this. Regardless it is a matter of principal or matter of $500, I really don't think you should let that ruin this moment. At the risk of offending others here, you shouldn't have high or even normal expections from a real estate agent. If they are good, let them surprise you, if they are not good,then that is you are expecting. Use this as a lesson learned for next time: protect yourself by having something in writing always. If it is a verbal agreement, shoot him / her a quick email.
That being said, this is what I will suggest: you should call your agent, and tell her that you are not happy that he backed out of his verbal contract. Tell him that :
you have been happy with his services (if that is the case), until he backed out his verbal contract / promise
you dropped your allowances demand because he stepped up.
you didn't ask him to chip in, and he didn't have to. he volunterred for whatever reason.
You expect him to follow up on his words, as this is about professinalism
You are not about to cancel the escrow on this.
He can decide if he thinks this is the right way to end your otherwise pleasant expereince with him.
Ask him to inform escrow the right amount to wire.
Lastly, you should always get a copy of the closing doc TODAY to review it, so you can get rid of junk fee ahead of time.</blockquote>
Nicely said.