.Tyler Durden said:Respect is a two way street. She has a right to her opinion and you have a right to yours. You shouldn't be talking down to someone who doesn't share your beliefs.
She didn't start the thread to telling everyone to stop vaccinating their kids. She asked a question asking for advice to find a particular service. A few people here have taken it upon themselves to try to change her beliefs by assuming that she will suddenly drop any long-held beliefs by listening to complete strangers pass judgement on her. She has her reasons for her beliefs and others have their own reasons for theirs. To think that she is less informed or lacks experience in such matters is only an assumption.
By this logic, if she asked for a vegan restaurant she would be advised on the benefits of eating meat. Or if she asked for a secular official to perform a wedding ceremony, she would be advised to become affiliated with a church or formal religion.
Does no one believe in simply answering her question?
My bad.... Dr. ps9.ps9 said:chicken pox = shingles
irvinehomeowner said:My bad.... Dr. ps9.ps9 said:chicken pox = shingles
I thought chicken pox = H5N1.
bones said:No one is talking down to her in this thread - just simply people disagreeing with her beliefs.
To be fair... I believe IrvineHouseWife threw the first volley by telling people to educate themselves and used the word "asinine".SoCal said:bones said:No one is talking down to her in this thread - just simply people disagreeing with her beliefs.
No one?
nosuchreality said:Herd immunity has been shredded. Statewide, only 90% of kindergarteners are up to date on their vacs. Many schools report 1/3rd or more are not.
And, it's the more affluent sections that are forgoing the vaccinations.
Hint, if a third of you school isn't vaccinated, that's a huge exposure and as previously noted, a huge reason why whooping cough has come roaring back.
The LA Times had a recent opinion peace,http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion...nd-vaccination-rates-20130811,0,3743127.story
Irvinehousewife let us know what you find. I know when we were talking with Pediatricians and brought up vaccinations, we got severely lectured by multiple ones before we could even explain that we were fine with vaccination, just didn't want the multi-group cocktails and the compressed timeline opting for an alternative more spreadout timeline.
irvinehomeowner said:To be fair... I believe IrvineHouseWife threw the first volley by telling people to educate themselves and used the word "asinine".SoCal said:bones said:No one is talking down to her in this thread - just simply people disagreeing with her beliefs.
No one?
Before that, posters were even using "IMO" to point out what their opinion was.
She doesn't need to be stressed right now. She has enough on her plate. I want to help keep her happy & relaxed. If she wants to vent, let her.
bones said:SoCal said:I also don't pretend to be a know-it-all internet doctor like some here who think they are as good as one because they went to the School of WebMD.
Fwiw, I don't need webmd for my know it all info. I have an actual MD behind my name.
IrvineHousewife said:She doesn't need to be stressed right now. She has enough on her plate. I want to help keep her happy & relaxed. If she wants to vent, let her.
Oh SoCal, you just earn brownie points by the boatload don't you? Thank you kindly for the support. I truly appreciate it.
I have actually quite enjoyed reading the posts. Some people have very interesting points of view and the fear in others really fascinates me.
It's nice to know there are level headed people out there.
bones said:IrvineHousewife said:However will you vaccinating Nazi's sleep at night now?!
So being 9 months pregnant allows you to call someone that disagrees with you a nazi?
SoCal said:I also don't pretend to be a know-it-all internet doctor like some here who think they are as good as one because they went to the School of WebMD.
Fwiw, I don't need webmd for my know it all info. I have an actual MD behind my name.
SoCal said:IrvineHousewife said:She doesn't need to be stressed right now. She has enough on her plate. I want to help keep her happy & relaxed. If she wants to vent, let her.
Oh SoCal, you just earn brownie points by the boatload don't you? Thank you kindly for the support. I truly appreciate it.
I have actually quite enjoyed reading the posts. Some people have very interesting points of view and the fear in others really fascinates me.
It's nice to know there are level headed people out there.
I know what it's like to be in your shoes. It's an overwhelming responsibility to make all the right choices we're presented with on behalf of our child. Especially moms, we torture ourselves over making the right ones. We don't need anybody essentially telling us "You're doing it wrong, idiot" when we agonize over these things enough as it is.
For the person who said, "Don't talk to me about asinine. Go tell the American Academy of Pediatrics..." If you're going by that, then what do you do with the fluid policy changes: swaddling, back to sleep, but especially a big controversial one like universal circumcision? After letting their policy sway me to twice make a decision, that they later reversed, and that I regret to this day and still beat myself up over, I will never look at it the same way again.