irvinehomeowner said:
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I would not want to put more 5% of the purchase cost in upgrades on a new home.
Even at that, I think $50k on a $1m house is already too much... if you do the fans, the cans and flooring... that shouldn't be more than $25k on a 2500sft house.
5% is difficult in a $1M house, not impossible, but very little customization. I know you would never buy one of the new construction houses due to the layout, but let's take a generic 3000 sq ft 4 bedroom 4 bath $1M with one bedroom downstairs, great room, dining area near kitchen, loft upstairs as an example.
Just on the recessed lighting, each bedroom with 4 lights, great room with 9, and say the loft is decent sized, 6 lights there. Ballpark $135 for each can so $135 x 31 = $4185
Let's say ceiling fan in each bedroom and loft cuz it's nice to have circulation up there. $200 per j-box so 5 x $200 = $1000. Fans vary in price from the ugly cheapo Lowes/HD setup as low as $99 to hi end Casablanca/Minkaire which can be well over $500. Split the difference say $250 per so $1250 for fans, but you're handy so you will install them yourself saving labor.
So just for cans and fans, that's ~$6500 right off the bat for the electrical that you want from the builder.
That leaves you $43500, so around ~$14-15 per sq ft for flooring. You can get nice flooring in that range. But let's say, you don't need that kinda nice flooring and can manage with $10 sq ft saving you $13500.
Well, you can't convert the California room to a conservatory cuz those start around $15k. This price range doesn't have the tandem spot so no need to convert that area cuz it doesn't exist. You could get bifold doors but it would eat away most of the $13500. But you hate flies in the house, so it isn't an upgrade you would get.
How about additional insulation. Personally I think this is a must, but others might pass. 3000 sq ft home probably around $2500. Let's say you think it's worthwhile and do this option, now you still have $11500.
Cabinetry can get expensive so let's say you're ok with thermafoil or standard generic maple recessed.
Countertops and splashes. You're gonna have to fight your wife on this one cuz I think the standard granite is ugly and looks dated. Some builders are sneaky here cuz while the kitchen granite is standard, the butler's pantry area (if you have one) is not. So you have to at least upgrade that area, or better yet just get a granite or quartz you and the wife really like. This is a high traffic area and well worth an upgrade in my opinion. Say $4000 so now left with $7500.
Gotta buy a fridge, but it's a 42" built in space. You've said before you're cool with a freestanding fridge there, so you can bring your old one over. (BTW, if you ever do buy a house with a built-in spot, for the love of humanity, please just buy a built-in) I assume you're ok with standard cooktop and wall oven. Although, this one is tough. If your family cooks a lot, I think upgrading to a gas range with electric wall oven is nice to have, lots of versatility.
Master bath. Say you want some nice tile, doesn't have to be complete surround all the way up including the ceiling, although that look is awesome. Say just regular upgrade, another $1000. IMHO, the master bath countertops and powder room should be upgraded, so I'm gonna spend another $1000 of your money there. Down to $5500. I also think you should get framed mirrors in the master bath and powder. I'm gonna spend another $1000 of your money there. The secondary bathrooms are ok with standard.
$4500 left
Ok, let's stop there cuz you need to get window treatments, paint, garage epoxy and organization if you want that stuff, closet organizers, maybe some nice trim like crown moldings, but all after COE and after your 3rd party flooring company is finished. It'll be tough to get all this for $4500 but no need to do it all at once, do it over time. Also we didn't even discuss low voltage, adding more outlets, screen doors, mirrored doors, extra cabinetry in the upstairs hallway or master area, sink or faucet upgrades, chandeliers and pendant lighting, etc.
You're right, you can do it for 5%. I actually liked doing this exercise. But, we all have different priorities and what we want in a home.
That 48" built in spot...I'm gonna get a Subzero for it, but that's me and my wife and it'll cost a pretty penny. I also want an undercounter beverage fridge cuz I drink a lot of beer and wine, those are also pricey. I let my wife pick out her dream kitchen cuz she's the one that uses it the most and she has great taste. I give you carte blanche to pick out what she wants. I also know guests hang out in the kitchen area so I want that space beautiful. I trust my wife's vision. I am a big fan of full extension drawers, but some builders are sneaky and they only give you those with an upgrade to soft close drawers. I like soft close drawers also, but usually won't get those cuz the builder rips you off, but if it's the only way to get full extension drawers, then I'll bite the bullet. Most ppl probably don't care about this, but I'm OCD. I'm kinda blas? about the stair system, but my wife is very specific, guess who wins that battle. I let my wife pick the flooring, but just ask her to keep it reasonable. Also, some decor items while expensive add to the vibe of the home and individualize it. They don't need to be from the design center and most can be done after but are still expensive. Wainscoting, cased openings, chandeliers in the stairwell, ceiling beams, all lovely. We entertain a lot and do so inside and out. Therefore, we will spend more money on the yard than most ppl. I love having a big ass TV outside someplace.
Yeah, you can do the bare minimum, but most ppl wanna make the home their own and if they spend more, it doesn't mean they got ripped off, it just means they spent more, that's all.