RobertLarsen_IHB
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[quote author="SoCal78" date=1252329024]If I may... Robert, I understand you are not necessarily looking to promote your services or yourself. However, have you considered that it may not be best to cause damage your professional image either? I am not trying to take sides here. I just wouldn't want you to do or say something you may regret in 5 or 10 years when a potential client goes to Google you and gets more than they were expecting. Today, you may pay it no mind, but in a few years, you may wish your 25 year-old self chose not to self-destruct your 35 year-old self. It is simply food for thought. I think it took me quite a few years to realize the value in the saying of "don't burn your bridges". I truly hope you will just consider the advice before dismissing it. (Your 35-years-old-and-married-with-two-mouths-to-feed-self might thank me.)</blockquote>
I agree and I am civil with the majority of people on here. But, there are times when you need to stand up to the little annoyances you encounter in life. Some bridges are just too expensive to maintain. And yes, sometimes I let the let those meaningless little annoyances get the best of me. I need to learn to just hit the ignore button quicker on people.
I think the majority of outside readers would feel for the minority on these forums, since there's pages and pages and pages of aggressive comments to almost anyone new here. Plus, it will be a sad day if in 5 or 10 years, 1 of the first even 50 pages on me that shows up on google is an IHB forum post from a decade ago. Not meaning anything bad against IHB, but search engine webcrawlers don't give much attention to forum posts.
I agree and I am civil with the majority of people on here. But, there are times when you need to stand up to the little annoyances you encounter in life. Some bridges are just too expensive to maintain. And yes, sometimes I let the let those meaningless little annoyances get the best of me. I need to learn to just hit the ignore button quicker on people.
I think the majority of outside readers would feel for the minority on these forums, since there's pages and pages and pages of aggressive comments to almost anyone new here. Plus, it will be a sad day if in 5 or 10 years, 1 of the first even 50 pages on me that shows up on google is an IHB forum post from a decade ago. Not meaning anything bad against IHB, but search engine webcrawlers don't give much attention to forum posts.