I'm a classical collector and there are some extreme ways of saving to support my habit...this is from a old usenet thread on this subject.
>I need some help (don't we all?). I am having a difficult time convincing
>my girlfriend that I am a paradigm of restraint in owning only 4700 CDs
>(approx. 3700 of classical music). All I really need to "prove" my case is
>to point to the truly insane numbers of LPs/CDs owned by many members of
>this ng. So please, help me out with my sweetheart and let me know how many
>LPs/CDs you own, provided that the number is substantially in excess of
>4700.
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"Ward Hardman" wrote in message
> How many days did it take you to reach this point?
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Of sanity or insanity? Unfortunately, I have acquired more than 3/4 of the
CDs in the last five years or so. But who's counting (other than my
girlfriend)? We'll skip the discussion of how to sneak the CDs into the
house without notice by one's partner (other than to say that she *did*
notice when I tried to sneak in a 200 pound amp).
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Counting LP's, CD's, cassettes, '78's, '45's, etc. I probably have about 1500
more items than you. However, I only started building this, my third separate
collection, in 1988 after my third divorce.
It seems to me there are four things relevant to spousal happiness on this
subject:
#1 You have to recognize that collecting music (or books, I and many other
record collectors do both) is a hobby like any other, it just takes up more
space than stamps or coins. But also hobbies that can be all consuming for
most people must be pushed into the background under most matrimonial/parental
scenarios. But THE TRUE Classical collectors are not ' most people'.
#2 Expenditures will have to be modified to meet family needs. You must convince
the family must like dog biscuits and not like soap. This means
essentially almost zero $$$ for life at certain periods of the future. This
is not hard to do however. First, what you do is spend the time you aren't
hunting to organize your holdings. Second, instead of spending $200 a week at
Albertson's you spend $20 at a local flea market, buy 12 torn badgs of dog biscuits,
wash, clean, eat, etc. Just as fulfilling as the other route.
#3 Further recognition is that you will in the future be listening to music a
lot less as time goes on. For many many years I have done 99% of my listening
while awake: you can do it at home by ignoring a spouse and/or small kids
(well, maybe you can give them 30 minutes here or there once a week.)
#4 Final problem will be space. Don't be surprised if you end up converting a
shed, an attic, a basement or a closet for your family to move into.
The number of CD's or whatever you have is not a problem. The problems are:
where is the family going to be put (somewhere out of the way, probably), how much
time will you have to spend time with them or listen to them (probably much less than
now), how much will you be able to spend on them (probably not much).
As long as your wife is willing to make these sacrifices you will
be happy and so will any other significant others you may produce. And I would
advise anyone capable of making these sacrifices to do so. Makes for better
listening later on.
Just say: "Yes, dear, I do have 4,700 CD's. But that's because there were 4,700
days before I met you." That way she will know that you consider a human being
more important than a CD, and she won't ask you to throw them out.
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3.I have something between 16.000 to 18.000 LP's and CD's. I don't consider
myself a paradigm of constraint and I'm quite willing to admit it's an
adiction. But a benign one. It's safer and better to your health than an
addiction to heroin, cocaine or crack, and in the long term even cheaper.
Besides, I'm not a real junk. For instance, although there were sales in the
department store I visited today I only bought one CD (if a twofer counts
for one).
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4.Philip F. Walsh" wrote:
> I need some help (don't we all?). I am having a difficult time convincing
> my girlfriend that I am a paradigm of restraint in owning only 4700 CDs
> (approx. 3700 of classical music). All I really need to "prove" my case is
> to point to the truly insane numbers of LPs/CDs owned by many members of
> this ng. So please, help me out with my sweetheart and let me know how many
> LPs/CDs you own, provided that the number is substantially in excess of
> 4700.
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With about 15.000 items I consider myself rather modest compared to some.
Philip
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6.>"Philip F. Walsh" wrote:
>With about 15.000 items I consider myself rather modest compared to some.
>
>Philip
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Some what? Record company storage facilities? National libraries?
John Harkness
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> Some what? Record company storage facilities? National libraries?
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> John Harkness
You missed the decimal point. He only has 15 items.
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Brian Cantin
An advocate of poisonous individualism.
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>You missed the decimal point. He only has 15 items.
I think the *committee* needs to investigate any subscriber to RMCR
who has only 15 items. Obviously there is something seriously wrong
with his collecting addiction and may be grounds for dismissal.
John