[quote author="irvinesinglemom" date=1220778631][quote author="no_vaseline" date=1220775433]The sales technique they are using is called "Standing Room Only". They've been using it to sell Corvettes for years.
I'd play hardball for $200K and walk. Trust me, they'll come crawling back.</blockquote>
No vas, you're probably right, but it's not a guarantee. When I sold my house in 2006 we actually DID have three offers come in at the same time, and we used this to our advantage. I saw the offers myself - it was not realtor creativity.
That kind of situation today, of course, is much less likely to occur. But again, you never know. And if their heart really is set on this one particular house, and they have been looking for two years, and they can easily afford the 30-year fixed payments, and they also love the location...it might not necessarily be the worst thing for them to move forward.</blockquote>
+1. There is something to be said about finding the "right" house. If you are willing to pay a certain amount, the buyers before you were willing to pay the same amount, and the back up buyer is willing to pay that amount, then that is the value of the place as it stands today, regardless of what the property across the street is going for. And if you don't plan to sell any time in the near future and can stomach continued down trends in the market, I think you're fine. I rather live in a house that I love, rather than settling for an okay one that can save me tons of money. If your family feels the same way, you're okay. But I think it might be worth it to take another crack at getting some sort of incentives.